You buy the ring for thousands of dollars, then you add to your debt by paying for a wedding. Nice way to start out your partnership... already behind the eight-ball, owing money.
My wife wanted something simple and basic. Told her she would regret it. Told her we should do something nice for her parents. It's a special day for them too. Especially her mom.
You can get a really nice ring and have a really nice wedding without blowing yourselves up financially.
I only planned on doing it once. It was going to be "an event"... And it was!
If you cheap it out... You really can't do it over..... Unless.... You remarry lol
UPDATE:
SHE SAID YES!
I'm the happiest guy in the world right now. Thanks to all who gave sound advice!
Cheers!
You do what you guys feel is best. Make it memorable! That's all. No, not the all we need is each other memorable. That is a given.