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5Stars;1687030 said:Perhaps you are right, but he's not the only coach that has done that and have kids also.
Do you have kids? Tough love works on some scale, but when it gets to the boiling point, my kids come first...always have and always will.
It's easy to condem or critize someone when you know actually nothing about the situation...
Yes, I do have kids. And chose family over my career. I now have both. My belief on parenting is teaching your kids to make the right choices and let them grow.
But being a defacto parent and "jumping" back in after multiple arrests is a mistake. In fact his kid was arrested again after Reid took his leave?
My kids come first but if they go off half baked post high school- they need to know it's on them and I'm not their get out of jail free card.
That's harsh but intrinsically it builds morale fiber and the want to do the right thing. These kids are past a "minor offense". These are menaces to society and future hardened cons.
And yes, I don't know what Reid's situation is. I can only see what his kids are doing. I just think flushing his career to "fix" these kids now is misguided and will only exacerbate the problem.
These kids likely despise the defacto Dad coming home to "fix their ills" NOW.