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diehard2294

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my mom was diagnosed with acute lukemia,she is 65 and has battled lung cancer before(1998) beat that! and in 2002 she had her aorta valve replaced. They said she is too old for treatmant,and it wont be long,so she will go home and enjoy the rest of her life. She was a great mother and a very caring person. Please pray for her. Thanks
 

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I can't even imagine what the two of you are going through, but I'm sure I wouldn't be out of place to send the thoughts and prayers of everyone on this board out to your family. I shudder at the thought of losing my mother...but I would hope to get the opportunity to spend some quality time with her before she passes. Take advantage, and take care. God bless.
 

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I am very sorry for the bad news you have received.

I hope you will receive some uplifting news soon.
 

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Sorry, to hear about this man, will say a prayer for you two.
 

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diehard2231;1670265 said:
my mom was diagnosed with acute lukemia,she is 65 and has battled lung cancer before(1998) beat that! and in 2002 she had her aorta valve replaced. They said she is too old for treatmant,and it wont be long,so she will go home and enjoy the rest of her life. She was a great mother and a very caring person. Please pray for her. Thanks

Will do, son, but my reason for responding is to encourage you in the strongest possible terms to get another opinion... "too old for treatment", when she's just 65, and the disease is leukemia?? That's become one of the more treatable form of cancers, from my understanding... and if that poor woman has battled lung cancer and cardiac disease, she's obviously a fighter...

Something just doesn't sound right there, unless you left something out (like the disease being VERY advanced)...

I've lost my Mom, coincidentally to lung cancer (and to carry the coincidence even further, we lost her sister, my Aunt Bertie, to leukemia some years back), so my heart hurts for you... Mom was 67 when she passed...

The only advice I can offer you is twofold-- spend all the time you can with her in her remaining time on this planet, and draw your family close, to draw strength from them... you can get through this, and your Mom wants you to... if she's anything like my Mom was, she's probably more worried about her family than she is herself...
 

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silverbear;1670473 said:
Will do, son, but my reason for responding is to encourage you in the strongest possible terms to get another opinion... "too old for treatment", when she's just 65, and the disease is leukemia?? That's become one of the more treatable form of cancers, from my understanding... and if that poor woman has battled lung cancer and cardiac disease, she's obviously a fighter...

Something just doesn't sound right there, unless you left something out (like the disease being VERY advanced)...

I've lost my Mom, coincidentally to lung cancer (and to carry the coincidence even further, we lost her sister, my Aunt Bertie, to leukemia some years back), so my heart hurts for you... Mom was 67 when she passed...

The only advice I can offer you is twofold-- spend all the time you can with her in her remaining time on this planet, and draw your family close, to draw strength from them... you can get through this, and your Mom wants you to... if she's anything like my Mom was, she's probably more worried about her family than she is herself...
it is very advanced now, her platlets are very low and basically she is bleeding inside. The doctor says a 30 year old couldn't take the chemotherophy she would need:( they told her 1 week,and if she were to cont. tranfusions 1 month. I am flying to florida in the am to spend a couple days with her. Her 1 wish is to see all of her grandchildren one more time,which she will have. Thank you all for the good thoughts and silverbear I feel for you.
 

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dang,,, prayers bro.

lost my Dad to Lung Cancer a few years ago. Why I bought myself an Aflac policy. don't want to burden my kids.

(btw guys, seriously did)

Keep your head up guy!
 

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Prayers to your mom and family. I lost my brother in law years ago to Pancreatic Cancer. I wish you the best. May God be with you.
 

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diehard2231;1670730 said:
it is very advanced now, her platlets are very low and basically she is bleeding inside. The doctor says a 30 year old couldn't take the chemotherophy she would need:( they told her 1 week,and if she were to cont. tranfusions 1 month. I am flying to florida in the am to spend a couple days with her. Her 1 wish is to see all of her grandchildren one more time,which she will have. Thank you all for the good thoughts and silverbear I feel for you.

Aw man, I didn't tell you all that for sympathy, but to let you know that you're not alone... what happened to my Mom and my Aunt Bertie was years ago, I'm well over it...

You just hang tough, and do whatever you can to make your Mom's last days happy ones... it will make it easier for you to bear if you have some good memories of these last days, if you were able to give her a smile...

Have a safe trip, and make sure your Mom knows that all of us are praying for her, and for you...
 

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Hi Ya DH...just sitting here shaking my head.

So sorry to read this.

Hopefully all the well wishes here will help in some way.

My thoughts and prayers are with you.
 

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diehard2231;1670265 said:
my mom was diagnosed with acute lukemia,she is 65 and has battled lung cancer before(1998) beat that! and in 2002 she had her aorta valve replaced. They said she is too old for treatmant,and it wont be long,so she will go home and enjoy the rest of her life. She was a great mother and a very caring person. Please pray for her. Thanks
I sure will. PM me her name. My Mom is a fighter too. I can relate.
 

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Hey DH,

I'm sorry to hear this news. You can't imagine how close to home this hits for some. I'll pray for all of you.

ABQ
 
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