Hello Again My Friends.

[TheDude]

BEst of luck

I went through a prolonged custody trial in 2006. I understand "the hole"

Sent you a PM.

And yes, it does get better, date as soon as you can, but dont fall for the first based on sex alone.. (sorry if too graphic)

 

[TheDude]

SD!!! I can relate!!! Man I am happy to hear that you are doing well! I am going through the samething minus the Childern as we didn't have kids. I am in the state of heavy deperssion and withdrawl from life so to speak. For anyone going through the same you know what I mean. I wish you the best SD stay strong!

you too brother, anytime you want to vent - PM me

 

[SDogo]

SD!!! I can relate!!! Man I am happy to hear that you are doing well! I am going through the samething minus the Childern as we didn't have kids. I am in the state of heavy deperssion and withdrawl from life so to speak. For anyone going through the same you know what I mean. I wish you the best SD stay strong!

I'm here for you as well man. Maybe different stages, maybe not the exact situation but the pain is all the same.

 

[SDogo]

BEst of luck

I went through a prolonged custody trial in 2006. I understand "the hole"

Sent you a PM.

And yes, it does get better, date as soon as you can, but dont fall for the first based on sex alone.. (sorry if too graphic)

Got it and responded. Much appreciated brother.

 

[SDogo]

Every symptom you desribed is deep depression. Sounds like you have turned the corner and are doing the right things. Pulling for you.

There is no doubt in my mind and I'm not going to lie, there was one day all I had was me and my truck and about 30 minutes where I was looking for a bridge.

Thanks for the support man!

 

[SDogo]

God Bless...It sounds like you are a terrific father. That is the most important role a man can have.

TRUTH and in the end that's what pulled me out of it.

 

[DFWJC]

Wow.
Great to hear from you, but I'm so sorry to hear what you've been through.
It certainly is a reminder, yet again, to put life in to perspective.

It does sound like you've been through hell and managed to come out of it quite possibly a better man--that is admirable. I won't say here what I guess or hoped happened, but just wish you the best.
Prayers are with you, SD.

 

[SDogo]

Wow.
Great to hear from you, but I'm so sorry to hear what you've been through.
It certainly is a reminder, yet again, to put life in to perspective.

It does sound like you've been through hell and managed to come out of it quite possibly a better man--that is admirable. I won't say here what I guess or hope happened, but just wish you the best.
Prayers are with you, SD.

It sure did, you figure out real quick whats important in life.

I have no doubt I will be forever changed for the better after this. In the end it may be a blessing and what your probably guessing is probably right. lol

 

[RoyTheHammer]

Stay strong, Dogo. Good to see ya back bro.

 

[CowboyStar88]

I'm here for you as well man. Maybe different stages, maybe not the exact situation but the pain is all the same.

Thanks Bro!! It's been a tough hill I filed for divorce but haven't served her yet as I found out she tried to kill herself in the 3rd. I haven't spoken to her since the 16th of December. I found out in the 14th that she had an affair on the 13th. I had to get a protective order because I am not sure what she is capable of doing since she is hooked on "pills" which was the down fall to our marriage and her career as a nurse. It's so sad to see what's happened. I hope one day she decides to get better. Maybe I will still be here. Rehab doesn't work that's where she met the guy. I have taken the road of worrying about me and getting back to me and focusing on work and my dogs and my health. I have no desire to go and party and no desire to date more meet other woman. I married my best friend and the love of my life and that hurts the most. If you ever want to vent I am here as well! I also decided to go back to church and join a new group that I hope will help me thru this.

 

[CowboyStar88]

you too brother, anytime you want to vent - PM me

Thanks man!

 

[JBond]

Thanks Bro!! It's been a tough hill I filed for .

Nothing personal... TMI

Keep your detail to pm's so people can help. Be leary of posting things on public boards. Never know who is reading.

 

[CowboyStar88]

you too brother, anytime you want to vent - PM me

Nothing personal... TMI

Keep your detail to pm's so people can help. Be leary of posting things on public boards. Never know who is reading.

Not worried about it. Nothing I said was wrong. But thanks for the advice.

 

[MapleLeaf]

There is no doubt in my mind and I'm not going to lie, there was one day all I had was me and my truck and about 30 minutes where I was looking for a bridge.

Thanks for the support man!

...poster and valued here on this board.

We are pulling for you and you know your voice is always welcome. Best to you and your kids.

 

[CoCo]

Blessings on you and your family SDogo. Thanks so much for checking in and sharing.

 

[CowboyMcCoy]

Been on two dates, I'll admit the first was very akward. Just did not feel right, was not ready at all but it really taught me some stuff and the made the 2nd rather enjoyable. Your right though, I did notice a bit of relief and a sence that I would be ok, that it's not the end of the world. Just doing a little talking now while everything settles but it looks promising.

I don't know if jumping right back in is right for everyone but so far so good on this side.

Yeah, I date all the time. I found a really nice girl from Egypt who I adore. My last girlfriend was Iranian and I recently dated an Indian girl. I seem to get around the globe. This is all by chance. I don't seek them out, it's just who replies to me. I guess I look more ethnic than I am. But, hey, I'll take it.

You have to weed through the bad ones of course and every date is different, but it does give you a sense of being you back. And I'm glad you're getting there. It takes a lot to talk about it. We're not supposed to have emotions, etc. But we do. Sometimes you have to let yourself be emotional to get back to normal if that makes sense. Dating also helped me a lot.

 

[CowboyMcCoy]

Thanks Bro!! It's been a tough hill I filed for divorce but haven't served her yet as I found out she tried to kill herself in the 3rd. I haven't spoken to her since the 16th of December. I found out in the 14th that she had an affair on the 13th. I had to get a protective order because I am not sure what she is capable of doing since she is hooked on "pills" which was the down fall to our marriage and her career as a nurse. It's so sad to see what's happened. I hope one day she decides to get better. Maybe I will still be here. Rehab doesn't work that's where she met the guy. I have taken the road of worrying about me and getting back to me and focusing on work and my dogs and my health. I have no desire to go and party and no desire to date more meet other woman. I married my best friend and the love of my life and that hurts the most. If you ever want to vent I am here as well! I also decided to go back to church and join a new group that I hope will help me thru this.

Dating helps get over the sting. The rest is downhill. My advice is date. It won't hurt anything if you know how to set boundaries.

 

[CowboyMcCoy]

There is no doubt in my mind and I'm not going to lie, there was one day all I had was me and my truck and about 30 minutes where I was looking for a bridge.

Thanks for the support man!

This passes. Glad you didn't find that bridge.

 

[Cowboy Brian]

I am sorry to hear what you have went through... Welcome back to NY! Maybe I will see you at the bar watching the game one day.

Stay well, keep your head up high.

 

[baj1dallas]

Welcome back, good luck, and never forget that you weren't the one who did wrong. Looking forward to your thoughts on the ... blech actually I don't think anybody can convince me that things are looking up for the Boys right now Ok I am looking forward to your post draft analysis maybe