Chief;2143862 said:That's golf.
Someone once wrote that there are no cocky golfers. It's such a humbling sport.
But just when you're ready to quit, you'll hit an amazing tee shot and be hooked again.
It teases you.
I don't play anymore, but would love to pick it back up later in life when I have some time and money.
The key for me is to not keep score. Just play for fun.
When I get to feeling too good about myself I always know I can go play around and come back to earth.Chief;2143862 said:That's golf.
Someone once wrote that there are no cocky golfers. It's such a humbling sport.
But just when you're ready to quit, you'll hit an amazing tee shot and be hooked again.
It teases you.
I don't play anymore, but would love to pick it back up later in life when I have some time and money.
The key for me is to not keep score. Just play for fun.
Vintage;2143983 said:I think I need to become mentally tougher on the course. When I screw up (like the double bogey on 3), I let it affect me for a good three holes.
I am not sure how to "forget" a shot/hole.
Doomsday101;2143991 said:The same way you have to put a great shot behind you. I have learned to control my temper and enthusiasm on the golf course and move on to the next shot. I try to keep the same routine on every shot so my focus is going through the routine which helps me forget about a good shot/bad shot or a good hole/bad hole
Vintage;2144010 said:That's hard for me to do.... I was always an emotional player in basketball, football, etc...
Doomsday101;2143991 said:The same way you have to put a great shot behind you. I have learned to control my temper and enthusiasm on the golf course and move on to the next shot. I try to keep the same routine on every shot so my focus is going through the routine which helps me forget about a good shot/bad shot or a good hole/bad hole
L-O-Jete;2144049 said:That sounds a little bit boring, I guess I'd rather be a 10 hcp. and rant after every shot than be a scratch drone(take the Romo approach, not the Manning)... I don't do this for a living I do it for fun.
Now if you are a heavy bettor... just like poker you better get a grip.
Vintage;2143983 said:I think I need to become mentally tougher on the course. When I screw up (like the double bogey on 3), I let it affect me for a good three holes.
I am not sure how to "forget" a shot/hole.
Nors;2144636 said:That was always the million $ question for me and why I struggle at stroke play but prosper in match play. In match play a lost hole is a lost hole and easier to forget.
I find that focusing on short game. Drives go 300 yards but that 3 foot putt counts the same. Poor chipping puts more stress on putter. Get a short game and your scores come down.
Unfortunatly most want to scrush drives and focus on what is the hardest shot to Master. Watch Tiger, he pulls driver 3-5 times a round and gets him in trouble some when he hits it.....
Vintage;2144828 said:Yep. That used to be me; wanting to crush the driver.
This summer, its been all about the approach shots/chipping for me. Been practicing them a lot.....
Vintage;2144891 said:I just learned how to hit a sand shot this summer.... I used to pick it clean every time. Now I can hit a bunker shot. Its not great.... but its at least a start.
I've made big strides in my chipping though. During this round (the one I described above), on the first hole, I hit a soft PW pin high, but missed it to the left a bit, hit the fringe, caught an unlucky bounce into the rough. Pitched it to within 2', tapped in for par.
On the third hole, after I got done screwing around with a tree (shouldn't have tried to hit it through a tree....). Anyway, I had a pitch shot for bogey (yeah....ouch), I short sided myself.....and the worst was the green was sloped where I needed to land it.... I had to land it really soft but carry enough to hit the bottom of the large slope and try to trickle it towards the cup. I lipped out. Its probably the best chip shot I've ever hit. The difficulty of the shot was incredible.
On the 8th hole, after a poor 2nd shot (caught it fat on a sidehill), I had to pitch it from 50 yards out, put it to probably about 6', made par.
Pitching and chipping (with the exception of one hole) was pretty good (for me).
It was my iron shots that were either amazing or terrible. There was no middle ground. And that really frusturated me. Because I honestly felt I could have shot in the high 30s that day. I've never had that feeling before. Off the top of my head, I can count 6 shots that were "extra" because of my stupidity.....and I shot a 46.
It was soooooooooo close to being a great round.
What gives me hope is that I know I am close to putting it all together. And my "mistakes" early on in the round resulted in pars. Normally, my mistakes mean bogey or double bogey.
It was sooooooooo close; yet, I still have work to do.