happily retired so there is not a chance in hell that I ever go anywhere near the east coast again
There are a lot of places on the east cost that are great IMO. New York, WV, Maine, NC (where I now live) along with western NC and even Tenn and Kentucy. You just need to know where to look and know what kind of temps you can get.
When I mention NY, not talking about NYC or any other larger city, but up in the northern tier (to many people use "upstate" NY way to liberally IMO LOL).
My wife might retire before me, depending on the MIL and where she is at, love Utah, Colorado and even the Sierra Nevada's, but still may stay local in the states I've mentioned.
Have to go to Charlotte tonight for a meeting. Wouldn't catch me dead living there, but less than 90 minutes away I have a lot of land and no one around me, can do what I want, no one bothers me, and I can't say I hate it, rather love it.
Please note, I did not mention New Jersey LOL