I don't get excited about the Cowboys; nor do I get upset. All the Cowboys loss on Sunday means is the NFL season is over, and the offseason has begun. I've already shifted into roster building mode in my mind. The only usefulness looking back to 2023 has is understanding what the team needs to improve.
Complaining about the coaches, players, and front office doesn't interest me. It is completely pointless. Complaining about under-performing rookies just makes you sound stupid - because rookies develop at different rates, and it takes time to fully understand if a draft/rookie class is any good. Attacking other fans for remaining supportive of the Cowboys angers me, and will get you blocked - because I don't have the patience or energy to invest any anger in others.
Also, there is a difference in complaining, and evaluating. It's easy to figure out from the whiny tone of those who complain vs. the intelligent tone of those who simply evaluate. Also, it's okay to disagree with evaluations, and come up with multiple options for getting better. For example: How do the Cowboys get better by trading Dak vs. how do the Cowboys get better by keeping Dak? Nothing is off the table, as long as it's discussed rationally. Even disagreements can be enjoyable discussions if there aren't personal attacks or whining about things none of us can change.
One other thing. Questioning the motives of players, coaches, front office personnel and fans really bothers me. Claiming the Jones family doesn't care, or players only care about money, etc. bothers me.
I don't believe anyone wants to win more than Jerry Jones; he just doesn't know how to do it. It's like watching someone 5' tall trying to dunk a basketball. He really, really wants to do it. He just can't get there with the tools he has. That's not a lack of desire; it's a lack of ability. I feel sorry for the man, and his futility. But I'm still pulling for him to do it. That doesn't make me a fan of Jerry. But he's not going anywhere, and the only option is abandoning the Cowboys, or keep rooting for Jerry to finally get it right. I choose the latter.
But my annual expectations for the Cowboys is for them to fall short. I will be pleasantly surprised and delighted if and when they finally win another Super Bowl - if it happens while I'm still alive. If it doesn't, it won't hurt me to keep rooting for the team, and keep hoping every year that they find the solution they are so desperately looking for.