As an older fan, I think I understand your displeasure with Jerry and his mismanagement of a once proud franchise. I remember when Cowboys ownership was virtually silent, and NFL professionals ran the team (Schramm, Landry, Brandt). We all recognize that the most pressing, serious problem with the team now is its malignant narcissist owner with advancing dementia.
It's also a situation where I have a mentality that doesn't seem to be present on this team. I said this the other week or so.
I can accept a loss where I feel the team gave it their all. Had we lost the Steelers game last week, I wouldn't have been angry because I felt the team gave their all and gave great effort. I was angry at the performances against the Saints, Ravens, and now Lions because I didn't see effort. For me, it starts with Jerry. I saw the weaknesses I laid out. If he wants to still be a GM, then I expect him to give the effort required of such. However, I knew he wouldn't give effort. I knew from the previous year's that he wouldn't do anything in free agency. The not signing of Derrick Henry angered me heavily and still does because I felt it would have been an effort to fix the run game. If it didn't work, I wouldn't have been angry. I would have appreciated that he at least tried. The lack of effort is what has me so angry. On top of this, he also gaslit us all offseason with the all in stuff. We all knew it was a lie. He knew it was a lie. Yet, he said it anyway. Then, he and his son basically talk about season tickets and give gaslighting responses in their TC press conference that showed they don't care. So, all of that combined has me where I am being so furious with him.
Then, the players are in a situation where we suck, and I knew we were probably going to be bad. But then I see the players almost check out when things go poorly. I was always taught to give my all until the game ended. I know people will blame Dak, but it's a structural failure with the team. You can't win when all you can do is throw. The interception in the endzone was heavily based on the fact we can't run the ball. I think Derrick Henry would probably have changed the dynamic of this game and the Saints game to where we'd be better balance. We are so imbalanced that it's almost unbearable. It's humiliating knowing that we all saw it, and Jerry didn't lift a finger to fix it.
When I go to cons (especially MFF),.I always try to give every bit of energy I can give. I'm selective when I wear the head of my suit, but I literally train for at least two months getting myself ready for how hot I can be in my body suit when at MFF. I train as best as I can do that I can have the most fun I can have have, and, in turn, be as entertaining as I can be for my friends who are also in suit and such. My goal is to give every ounce of energy I have to the point where I am almost unable to get up the next morning after getting home from a con. When I sit my tail on the plane seat coming back from MFF, I want to know I gave every bit that I could at a con. I have been told at conventions that people love the energy I bring to cons. I explain that I love being there and part of the fandom, and it's my responsibility to be the best I can be and bring as much energy as I can to the convention. I typically have blisters on my feet following the cons. I do that because, as I learned when playing football, I want to give everyone there my best. I'm not the best furry, and I'm far from the best fursuiter. But one of the things that I think people have grown to respect about me at cons is my effort at cons.
That's what I expect out of everyone in the team from Jerry down to the waterboy. As a fan, I try to be the best fan I can be because it's my responsibility to try to cheer on the team as best as I can. But ******! I want to be able to be proud of the team. If I'm not seeing effort, then it bothers me. It angers me. And seeing Jerry not even try to fix our issues infuriates me.