No, "talented" and "better" are not synonomous. Sports history is full of examples of guys outreaching their given talent with hard work and commitment, aka heart. Likewise there are example of guys who wasted their given talent simply due to lack of effort.
All of these things were on the radar of anyone who's been paying attention. Franlky they really don't have a thing to do with this discussion. In fact, because of these obstacles the intangibles of leadership, heart and chemistry are even more important. A focused, team goal oriented locker room would not let the Pacman thing disrupt them. A little leadership from the coaches
and maybe Tony would have been "coached up" into being himself and not trying to emulate Brady. Brad Johnson did not play against Pittsburgh, Baltimore or the Eagles. We did take a hit at RB but we also found out something about Choice. I wonder what may have happened it the LOUSY special teams play had been addressed much earlier? Maybe nothing, maybe something. We'll never now because of the wishy washy "leadership" coming from coaches and management. Inspite of all those obstacles this team could have gotten into the playoffs with just one win against the three teams mentioned and they failed miserably and saying all the wrong things in the process.
I'm not saying that Romo makes a speech every day and the team strolls to the Super Bowl. I am saying that this team clearly is drifting without a rudder and maybe had someone taking the tiller they could have got that one more win and made the playoffs and who knows what happens after that. This team has the players to compete with anyone in the league.
As far as how the Cowboys stack up against Pittsburgh: As bad as our O-line played, Pitt's was their achilles heel all season. Somehow they managed to get it done as a team when it counted. I'd take Romo over Ben any day. How about you? I'd take our receivers over Pitt's any day. How about you? I'd take our TE over Pitt's any day. How about you? D-Line? Pretty close. LB's? Slight edge to Pitt but again, not by much. Safety" Ok, you got me here. CB's we compete very well here also.
In terms of your difference between the descriptions of "talent" and "better," I can see your point. I can't say I would prefer to have the players the Steelers have over the current Cowboys roster, but, then again, my opinion is biased. I am a fan of the Cowboy's and those deemed worthy to don the star. Nevertheless, that doesn't make the Cowboy's more talented or better than the Steelers or any other team for that matter. And the final score of the Dallas vs. Pittsburgh game and the results of the Super Bowl would contradict the assertion.
The defenders seem to have an obligation to completely seperate the tangibles from the intangibles. Every team in the final four also had simliar tangible issues to the Cowboys. All the "should have knowns" you mention are valid points. That does not make the other side, the intangibles" any less valid. I've never played pro sports but I have been involved in many situations in sports in family in business where a group of people had to accomplish a goal in a structured setting. I can't imagine anyone with similiar experiences not understanding how important these three intangibles are. Sure, sometimes it just clicks. Often though, someone has to exert themselves as a leader and get everyone else in line behind them. I would have to ignore three decades + of personal experience to not believe that.
It is not my intention to make readers believe that the tangibles out-weigh the intangibles. However, I don't feel that the intangibles carry as much weight as the media would have us to believe. It is my opinion that the media has an ulterior motive to write and say what sells and an agenda to make what they have wrote and said right! With those variables in mind, this cross they have placed on various members of the team, in particular T.O., is typically due to that same reporter being one of the original individuals saying what a bad idea the T.O. was acquisition was. Now, not only do they sell more papers by printing his name in a headline, but they also get the added benefit of making themselves right. The same is true of the Pacman debacle, Wade Phillips being made head coach, the tyranny of Jerry Jones, and the inconsiderate postgame comments of Tony Romo.
But make no mistake, I'm not taking sides here. I realize there is a certain degree of truth to every remedy necessary to fix the Cowboy's. I'm just not ready to accept the idea that there is only one rememdy that fixes all that ails the Cowboy's as a whole.
Of course, these intangibles are only one piece of the puzzle. They cannot be expected to overcome the loss of the franchise QB when playing a very good team. Although they most certainly can help. Again though, the point is with everything on the line this team seemed to come apart. It's not even so much that they lost but how they lost and even more, how they responded. I am completely baffled by your assertion that it is just as well they didn't get in because they wouldn't have gone anywhere. How do you know that? I will say again, even with the tangible problems this team had they were just as well equipped to win the ring as any other team in the playoffs.
I'n other posts you question people statements by saying something like:
"how do you know? Were you in the locker room or are you just repeating the media spin"
I think I have to ask you the same thing about some of the statements you are presenting as fact.
First, be specific. What items have I presented as fact are questionable? The fact that Romo wouldn't have played in the 1st round game? That was a fact! Rather they win or lose is prefaced with the word "likely" which means I'm saying the chances are we would lose, but I'm not resolute in that belief. If there's something else, please let me know, and I will reword or argue my side.
I will not argue that the Cowboy's were just as deserving of a Super Bowl run as any other team, in terms of talent. When this team fires on all cylinders, I'm not sure there's a team that can stop them. But that really isn't the point of this thread, is it? I don't think anyone disputes what this team is capable of. The question is in the cure. How do you fix a team that in composition is sound? It's a complicated question. However, the media presents solutions on a 1st grade level to reach a universal audience adhering to the aforementioned agenda: sell papers and maintain integrity.
My belief is the answer is not as simple as fixing the intangibles. The solution is not 1-fold or even 3-fold. And, as I have also argued, I don't think the intangibles are as big of problem as the media would like for us to think it is. They make it big to show how it could cause what is a big issue. But the big issue extends well beyond the understanding of the average football watcher. How does a team with so much talent become so disappointing?
Well, you can begin your explanation with the intangibles, but don't end it there. That's very misleading. You can throw in injuries, but obvously it doesn't stop there either. You can sight all the "should-have-knowns," but, to be honest, that doesn't quite capture all the blame either. You can point out that the team on the other side of the field wants to win too. You can look at the age of certain players. You can point at the mindset of these players in each game. You can point at the gameplan that was devised versus the gameplan that was made to contradict it by the opposing coaches. You can look at the plays called. And many times, when all of the previous things were as they should be, the difference between a win and loss was because that one player who didn't make that one tackle, or the one block, or the one catch, or that one throw....
And, in the end, through 16 games all these different variables are thrown together to produce two teams who won when it counted the most. And then they, if that path is continued, play between 2 - 3 games more to reach the Super Bowl. And if all the variables line up for them again, they walk away with a shiny ring. That's football.
Now that I'm blue in the face, I'll say it again for good measure, to say that leadership, heart, and chemistry are the big reasons this team fell short is, with all the abovementioned variables considered, is way too simple of an explanation. Sure, it's something to look at. But fixing those elements, doesn't guarantee the Cowboys win a Super Bowl or even a Play Off game for that matter. There's far more to it...that's all I'm saying.