Sorry to see the culture seeping through... victim, not fair, etc.
This is the HC's job. We are at a disadvantage because this owner has neutered our HC and EVERYONE, including the refs know it. If anything, like someone in the thread said earlier, chat it up with the ref before the game and point out a couple players.
Micah is frustrated and rather than work on his game or maybe talk to Quinn about maybe doing something different, he's succumbed to the current Cowboy Way. Maybe next year a little older and in the off season one of the other premier pass rushers of the past I've seen him engage with - Ware, Miller, Haley - can bend his ear and let him know that's not the way to go. Keep the focus on yourself and let your performance MAKE them make the call.
But its so hard to escape the culture...