With regard to the two-week notice thing..............yeah, that hit me a little hard. But I gave it a pass for two reasons: He is a great guy and was a loyal, model employee who had my back 100% for five years. Second, I believed him when he told me that HE was "short noticed" about the other job. He was made the offer and told to either start tomorrow or the door would be shut. So I justified THAT by blaming his new employer for putting him in that position. He made the decision, yeah. But I didn't want to pile on and make him feel worse than he already felt.
I wasn't going to let five years of excellence be totally demolished or deminished by a blip-bad deal at the end. He had to do what he had to do. His wife is unexpectantly pregnant again, and times are tough all over. People sometimes do things they otherwise wouldn't normally do in extrordinary financial times.
Anyone staring down the barrel of going from $30.00 an hr. to over $40.00 an hr.............................their capable of almost anything in this economy.
BTW, I'm a contractor. This guy was my top painter and ran the painting crew. So to make a sideways or lateral move over to another shop was probably easy for him with regard to skills and work load.
The only carry-over for me, should he come back someday, is my reservations NOW about putting him back into a leadership role. If he was just another painter, I could replace him pretty easy. But the guy who had all the keys and specifications and programs.....................he new more than I did about the paint shop. And to just walk away w/o any notice, that's the part that's hard to accept for me. It's gonna take me all month to get his successor up to snuff about everything he knew and did for me.
As much as I like the guy, he HAS SHOWN ME that he's capable of digging out w/o notice, and that presents problems. Also, someone mentioned that when folks get fired, theres usually no notice. I agree with that sentiment, and that's another reason why I'm not going to hold it against this guy forever.