There's always a bottom line.
If we were 8-3 and Hardy had 10 sacks, his goofy tweets and any other harmless behavior would be totally ignored.
Do I have a problem with him physically manhandling a woman? Yes
Do I have a problem with him putting out the persona that he's an animal? No
Do I have a problem with him saying he'll come out "guns blazing"? No
Do I have a problem with him commenting on Brady's woman and maybe getting in his head a little? No
He did something wrong. As long as he doesn't do it again, indicating an actual problem, I don't care that he doesn't apologize, show contrition, or tame it all down the way the politically correct NFL or media or special interest groups want him to. The guy is unquestionably the best D lineman on our team and the best pass rusher, and because our young pups at DE are such lightweights, he's been forced to play a lot more DT than he normally has, yet he's still fighting 100% on every play. I love his motor and his freakin' football attitude, and I don't care if he thumbs his nose at the rest of the world forever....as long as he doesn't ever get rough with another woman.
I'm not willing to win at all costs or look the other way if he is a bad man who keeps having frays with the law...I would hope we wouldn't stand for that even if he gets 20 sacks. But I am willing to stomach the media and others whining about him not acting the way they think he should act....as long as he doesn't hit a woman again.
This team is desperate for a quality DT, a big sucker who is a run stuffer who can stand up to double teams and push the pocket a little. Put that guy beside the Crawfords and skinny Leon (Irvin), and Hardy and our other DEs will be just fine.
No mega contract, but he deserves a fair contract. Offer him a slightly upper echelon starting DE contract; if he balks, let him test the market. Then sign him to a fair contract unless someone blows the lid off.