Thanks Mom

Yakuza Rich

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Nobody on this forum knew of my mother, Tamara Sue Johnston Hunt, but she had a great impact on me being a Cowboys fan and being a statistician.

My mom isn't a football fan, but what drew me to rooting for the Cowboys, all the way from Central New York, was my mom saying The Cowboys uniforms were always a cut above everybody else. They were really classy.

And she liked Roger Staubach as well.

My mother hated doing math. Just absolutely hated it. So she was surprised when I told her that I got my math and statistical analysis skills from her.

Analysis...at its very core is 1-part understanding how things work and 1-part creative problem solving. While my mother hated math, she was a wizard at figuring out how things work and solving puzzles or making everyday chores easier.

I'll freely admit that I'm hard to get along with at times. I can be condescending, obnoxious and impolite. But, my mother didn't raise me that way. My best traits come from her.

It never ceased to amaze me how much love she had in her heart. And just how considerate she was. They say 'we judge others by their actions and judge ourselves by our intent.' My mom always thought about the other person's intent and preached to me to considerate of others.

My mom grew up fairly poor and then when she was in her 20's, her dad ditched the family. He simply washed his hands of my grandmother, mother, uncle Rick, aunt JoAnne and aunt Sharon. He ended up moving up the street, married to a new wife and refused to have anything to do with his family. I never met the man despite the fact he was a member at the same golf club my grandmother was a member at and it was a club that I won several junior golf tournaments at.

Despite that, my mother was never, not even one iota, bitter about that. She was just too busy loving her friends and family.

I just wanted to share all of that because the world lost a great person today. Without her, I would have never become a Cowboys fan and would have never enjoyed so many of the experiences and people on this forum.





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Your mother sounds like she was a fantastic human being. I'm glad you shared a tiny bit of what she was to everyone fortunate enough to have known her in life. Thank you and bless you and your family.
 

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I'm really sorry for your loss YR. I lost my mother last year and admire your strength in this trying time. Your mother sounded like a wonderfully creative person and you will forever see those traits in you as mentioned. Stay strong and remember the good times brother.
 
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Sorry for your loss, YR. It sucks, I know. Keep your chin up and don't be weary of letting your heart ache out, even if you have to lock yourself in the bathroom so no one sees (done this a million times since losing my folks & siblings). Too much pressure build up will choke your own life out, so open that hatch now and then and let the steam off, so to speak. Your mother sounds like she was an awesome lady and fantastic Mom. May she rest in piece.
 

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Rich, God bless your beautiful mom, Tamara Sue, on her new journey. God bless you for being a son every parent wants. My thoughts and prayers are with you and yours.
 

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My condolences to you and your family for your loss. A mother/parent is a treasure to be sure.

And, keep in mind, the best legacy and testament to who they are that a parent leaves is their children. I'm sure that she is very proud up in heaven.
 

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I just wanted to thank everybody for their support. Yes, I wrote this post fishing for sympathy. Believe me, I really need it right now.

But, in the spirit of my mother as she was always looking to help people based on her experiences....and if this helps 1 person and their family, it's completely worth it.


If you are 55+ or older and have diverticulitis and are submitted to the hospital....even if you have been diagnosed with diverticulitis long ago...do whatever you can to elect for surgery and have it right away.

The doctors and surgeons will usually push for a conservative treatment. Even if you have an abcess that they feel would be best to drain first before surgery...don't wait. Get the surgery. You won't suffer through as much pain and it may be the difference that saves your life.

I really beg anybody to do this because my mother did everything exactly like she was supposed to do, but the doctors and the surgeon wanted to postpone surgery and it killed her. I wouldn't wish this type of pain that has been brought on my mother, myself and my family on my worst enemy.

Thank you,




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Sorry for your loss, I lost my mom a little over three years ago. It was hard, but I still feel her right here with me. I keep her picture by my bed and give her a kiss goodnight and good morning daily. Keep her memories in your thoughts. Bless you, your mom and your entire family. It'll get better, she will never leave you.
 
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