You did with your last sentence. Actually, you said you don't have to be and I said "it helps".
" You don't have to be biracial for that lol."--your quote
It has never been a problem for me to relate to anyone. I'm white. Literally, everyone of my school friends in high and middle school were black. After leaving an almost all white catholic school this is who I naturally fit in with. Three of my 5 groomsmen were black. One of the two white guys was my wife's pick and was her brother. In the early 90's when in Kentucky it wasn't so accepted and definetly not the norm to have diverse social groups. My outside of school white friends and my friends from school hung out and partied together for years after high school into college and still a small group of us do today. As a group we literally helped integrate what were very racially segregated parties both with all white parties and all black parties. I nor my friends ever felt awkward or out of place, but take my word some did. And, at first in the mostly white settings there was some uncomfortable feelings to say the least.
Please don't make those assertions about me as I've experienced these cultures and, at least in Kentucky and according to Dak Louisiana, there are differences. Maybe you have too. Maybe. Maybe you're just young and some of these barriers aren't there as much and I'm not aware. I hope so. Maybe you're just naive and that's actually a good thing.
Either way Dak experiencing mostly black and mostly white culture with each of his families DOES help him relate to others in the locker room better. If you disagree argue with him and tell him he's inaccurate about what he thinks about his experiences helping him relate. Because that's what he thinks.
It don't help but at this point we are talking circles. You said you're white but could get along well with black people but aren't biracial right? Examples like yours show why I feel this biracial stuff is hype but I the crazy (I know you didn't say or imply that) one?
I'm going to always come up with views based on things I see, hear, etc just like everyone else. I don't get this assertions business you are posting about. Like I said previously its not hard to be diverse when your interest are that way anyway. Its not hard to understand if you have diverse interest its easier to vibe with more people initially esp when talking something as easy for most guys as sports.
When I see him I will do that. Not. I'm going back and forth in this thread and why would I argue I just disagree and said why. If you really think being brachial gives you some magical (obvious sarcasm but when disagreeing online some people like to get obtuse) powers so be it. I don't and funny thing is you are actually proving my point while disagreeing with me which I don't get. I would like to know how you can relate though when you aren't biracial?
Dak isn't the one making assumptions or telling people things should be easy because it's easy for him. You are entitled to your opinion as is Dak. I wasn't putting him on a pedestal based on him being a "celebrity". I'm just saying you are. I position to someone things should be easy because it goes easy for you. That's a very egoistical approach to the situation.
Lol Dak defender to the rescue smh. People don't like to hear the truth I see because relating to people isn't hard and none of y'all probably can't even explain why its supposed to be. Maybe y'all are shy but otherwise if you are outgoing. And have similar likes I don't see how its hard to relate. How am I putting him on a pedestal by disagreeing? When you put someone on a pedestal you usually are agreeing with said person not disagreeing. We all have egos but only when trying to use the morality play is that some type of bad thing. Lastly your ego thing would make more sense on something that is hard not relating to people.
How you misunderstood his point befuddles me. He was saying that you should be careful making what is normative for you normative for others. You have your experiences, Dak has his.
This isn't a story about your life. It's a story about Dak's life. And in Dak's life, he believes being biracial helps him foster relationships with both blacks and whites.
You again. No stuff I know exactly what he was saying. Stay befuddled its just a messageboard even though you have a knack of quoting me I've noticed. Why do yall keep saying this Dak said blah blah blah? Who cares? I said you don't have to be biracial to do what he is doing and I don't believe it help. What does that have to do with his experience and me discrediting it? Maybe it does help him but my point is it isn't a unique trait but apparently some of y'all think it is which is "befuddling" to me. Who said it was a story about my life? I'm just using myself as an example of my point and I could also use another person who seems to disagree Harris2 as another one.
Exhibit A.
Everybody has a story and their story should not be dismissed as some are doing with this article.
My life is my life. I'm not telling you what I think.... I'm telling you what I know.
Get this bogus ness out of here. Nobody is talking about his dang story. People are literally saying you don't have to be biracial to "get along" in the locker room. That does not and let me repeat does not mean that isn't what Dak believes helped him. It means I disagree with it which last I checked we all have done at some point. Are y'all dropping the same online life quote lines when y'all disagree with someone? It isn't that hard to understand but y'all so in love with Dak y'all can't even see what others are saying. I see what y'all are saying even if I disagree.