You don't pay players just because you like them or because they've been a big part of your team in the past. That is what gets you in trouble.
And NFL contracts aren't a promise, which is why they aren't guaranteed. He hasn't earned anything, nor has any other player.
His off the field presence and leadership isn't worth 8 million per year, if it was we wouldn't have gone 8-8 the last three years.
8 million a year can get you a great pass rushing defensive end. The opportunity cost of paying Jason Witten that money is way too high.
I agree you don't pay players just because you like them, and Romo and Witten didn't get contracts "just because we liked them".
They were top tiered players when we gave them contracts, and they still are. Witten may have lost a step physically, but he's gained two steps mentally. With Witten it's not just about being a Red Zone threat, he's much more then that, he's a complete all around TE which can't be said for 99% of the TEs in the NFL (including Graham, Davis, Gronkoski, ect). Witten definitely doesn't have the same speed, or quickness, but it doesn't matter much as his game isn't dependent on those attributes. He beats you with his precise route running, great hands, great blocking, and his mental sharpness. And I honestly don't see how you're going to fault him for the 8-8 record the past 3 years, especially considering you're a huge Romo supporter.
(About M.Bennet) Also, when Bennet was here he was a terrible TE, he deserved to go. Bennet himself has stated that he wasn't a good player in his younger days. According to him, he said he's really figured it all out these past 2 years, IMO you can't fault the Cowboys for moving on from him. Some players just need a different scenery/environment to be successful, just like how Rolando has been great here but in Oakland he was a bust.
I agree we'll ask/should ask Witten to restructure or take a pay cut, but like I said originally. Coming from a players perspective, I won't be shocked when Witten tells us, No, at least on a straight up pay cut. Ask Brady how well that worked out for him in NE when he was asked. He took a pay cut so they could bring in more help for him, yet that never happened, funny how that worked out.