ChldsPlay;2253311 said:
It would depend on the job really.
You must be very, very young... perhaps with time, you'll understand that in situations like a job interview-- no matter what the job may be-- and court are times where you want to make a good impression, you want to curry favor with the interviewer or the judge...
And a court of law has more authority, but I don't know if I'd say it is "higher." Plenty of courts have shown themselves to be pretty low.
The point is, the judge of any court has a certain amount of control over your future, whether you like it or not... so it's wise to show him respect...
And at court, you're going to have a lot more of the "unsophisticated." You're not just dealing with people who went to college and graduated at 4.0.
It doesn't take a mental giant to have COMMON SENSE, son... it would seem that you're not overly blessed with it...
And the purpose of court is not to make good impressions. It is to determine fact, guilt and innocence. Manner of dress SHOULD NOT be a factor.
Maybe it shouldn't, but it does... let me tell you a little more about that day in court that I referred to in an earlier post; I had t-boned a van turning out onto a main road while leaving work one morning, just never saw him... I jumped out of my Jeep to make sure he was all right, he was, and a girl at the Waffle House saw the accident, and let us know she'd called the cops... we exhanged insurance info while waiting for Sgt. Knight to get there, he listened to our stories and cited me for failure to yield... he then helped me pull the fender out so that I could drive it home (which he didn't have to do)...
Well, for some reason that kind of traffic offense is one where you can't just mail in the fine, you have to appear in court... so the appointed day arrived, I dressed nicely, respectfully... my case was called, Sgt. Knight and I stepped forward, I was asked how I pled, and I responded "well, I did it, so I guess my only plea is guilty, sir"...
The judge looked up from the papers he was reading, he looked astonished... I then said that I simply never saw the poor guy, but that didn't change the fact the he had the right of way, and I hit him... the judge then looked at Sgt. Knight, who said something along the lines of "Mr. Cottrill was a perfect gentleman", which made me smile...
So the judge accepted my plea, and with a smile told me that I'd have to pay the fine, but he was waiving the court costs... I certainly didn't expect that...
So, the moral to the story is, by showing the court respect, I got off easy... that wasn't my plan, but that's the way it worked... and again, I wasn't in a coat and tie, I was in Haggar slacks, an Arrow dress shirt, and New Balance shoes...
The fact that the court makes it a factor is a disgrace, and disservice and makes the court deserving of NO respect.
Well, your problem is that the court doesn't CARE about your opinion... so you go right ahead and show them your lack of respect, just don't come whining to me if you get the book thrown at you...
Better still, with your attitude, you'd be wise to make REAL sure you never have to go to court... trust me, you won't do well there unless you wise up, and at least PRETEND that you have respect for the institution...