I agree its kind of annoying cause if you think about it teams are gonna play to whatever advantage they get.
If they realize they can hold without being punished, why not hold till you are? Conversely if you are called for holding now you gotta change things up and that can lead to more pressures/sacks/less running lanes. It makes a difference when one team is called for holding, kills a drive or extends the opposing sides drive.
To say things like this dont effect the game are just macho brain dead comments. This doesnt just effect us either, its annoying to see it happen to other teams as well, absolutely boring to watch Mahomes go for a scramble and you see all the defenders blatantly being held so he gets that running lane, then some ticky tack hold is called on the other team.