If the claims are to be true (settling doesn't necessarily mean it is but the timing right before discovery is a little telling), grabbing a woman's ******, pressuring someone to perform oral sex, or whipping it out and trying to coerce them to touch him is a little beyond "trying for a happy ending". This goes way farther than simply asking. If someone did this to my wife or daughter there sure as anything would be a coming to Jesus moment (no neither are massage therapists). But hey if you think this is okay behavior, you do you.
https://www.nytimes.com/article/deshaun-watson-sexual-assault-lawsuit.html
"Watson was said in both cases to have pressured women to perform oral sex during massages and was accused in one of also having grabbed a woman’s buttocks and ******. The civil suits alleged that Watson engaged in a pattern of lewd behavior with women hired to provide personal services, coercing them to touch him in a sexual manner, exposing himself to women he had hired for massages, or moving his body in ways that forced them to touch his *****. The incidents cited in the suits were said to have occurred from March 2020 to March 2021."