KJJ, part of the problem is you are making all sorts of assumptions about what is happening at practices that you don't attend and in meetings that no one outside of the team gets to attend.
I think based on the past couple of years it is pretty obvious that Garrett gets his guys to play hard. There is no quit in this team at all. That is in stark contrast to Parcells' and Wade's teams which would often wilt once they fell behind or once an injury hit. We had a resilience that I had not seen in quite awhile. The problem was the talent was too young and too hurt to really do much damage last year late in the season.
If you want to see evidence that the team responds to him and his coaching then look no further than the Cincinnati game.
The only reason playing hard and not quitting is even impressive right now is because Wade Phillips was a horrible HC and couldn't even get the team do do that. That doesn't mean that there's some inherent awesomeness about getting millionaires to show up and do their job. If Wade Phillips had never been the coach of Dallas, nobody would notice anything different in the effort the team puts forth because there wouldn't have been a horrible coach who allowed his team to quit to show us what that looks like.
Last year Cleveland was 2-7 when they rolled into Dallas and took the Cowboys to the limit. How many coaches actually stay employed without the ability to get their teams to play hard and not quit? Horrible coaches allow their teams to quit and as a result they aren't coaches for long.
Does Garrett get the effort? Sure. I won't deny that but I also won't shower a guy in praise because he gets the team to do it's job when that is
his job.
The players care a great deal about the team now, natural leaders are being nurtured and finally stepping up and I believe they all believe in coach Garrett and his vision of the team. He has assembled a great group of coaches and even the younger hires (Gary Brown, Pollack, Wes Phillips, Dooley) appear to be doing good work with their units.
I know you don't believe and that is fine. I think you are just making a bunch of assumptions based on the front that Garrett presents to the media and on the sideline during games. I really don't think he lacks fire, passion or emotion at all. He is just focused, calm and wants to project his confidence in the team even when things aren't going well.
Projecting confidence and stoicism aren't tied to one another. Plenty of people lack emotion AND lack confidence just as there are people who exemplify both. There is no recipe to projecting confidence and there's nothing to say that he'd be less effective in projecting confidence if he were the type of guy who got riled up. I don't suppose either Harbaugh feels deficient in the confidence department. Same goes for stoic coaches.
I don't think there's any script to read from and I certainly wouldn't endorse modeling yourself or your behavior in a certain manner in an attempt to appear a certain way. If he's seriously tempering himself because he feels he comes off as a more confident person then I would say he's doing it wrong. You can't just feign confidence. What would be the reason to even do so? Confidence breeds success? Sounds great and I imagine someone has made a few motivational posters out of it but in the absence of an equal amount of ability comes arrogance. That is generally how we refer to people who are more confident than capable, is it not? Not to mention there's a big disconnect from reality in the idea that you can just project confidence and thereby be successful.
I think the players get the coaching they need without being embarassed and degraded in front of a national audience during a game. We need that players head in the game and shouting at them right after a mistake may feel good to you as the fan but it may be detrimental to that player's performance through the rest of the game.
Negative reinforcement is only detrimental if it isn't paired with positive reinforcement. There's a fine balance between the two. Wade couldn't find that balance and NEVER blamed the players for the mistakes that they made. All he ever did was talk glowingly of them and accept their blame for them. Aside from that, any player who's psyche is so fragile that he crumbles when told that he isn't doing his job correctly probably wouldn't have made it to the NFL, provided they didn't become become a recluse by the time they were high school in the first place. Life in general is full of successes and failures. Telling someone that they aren't getting the job done isn't some life altering even, especially if they are making mistakes that they know they shouldn't make or making the same mistakes over and over again. Maybe it wouldn't have taken Bennett and Olgetree the better part of 3 years to figure out their assignments had they been subjected to a little embarrassment.
So again, Garrett will be judged on the results he achieves in the end but I think he has been doing a very good job turning this team around. We had big problems when he took over that 1-7 team that was the 2nd oldest in the league with a bunch of bad contracts and a bunch of dead money to eat. He has gotten us younger and better and cheaper all while remaining competitive and playing for the division championship in the last week of the season the last two years. Not many teams can do that when rebuilding on that scale in a strong division.
Dallas hasn't done it. They've been "competitive" but the NFCE isn't strong. Sitting on 8 wins in any other division going into week 17 and you would have already been eliminated. In a few divisions you would have been effectively eliminated a month earlier if you finished the year at 8 wins. As far as getting the team younger and cheaper, I'm not sure that's necessarily a Jason Garrett thing or if that's just the natural result of inheriting the 2nd oldest team in the league with a bunch of bad contracts and a bunch of dead money to eat.
Whatever the reason, I don't really care. I think he has done a good job with his drafts thus far for the most part. There are some moves that I don't really care for sprinkled in but for the most part I'm encouraged by his roster management. I think the team would have been forced to go younger and cheaper no matter who was hired but Jason has definitely worked within the tight box that Jerry gave him to work with and he has made some productive moves in the process. That is worth noting, IMO.
Bottom line, I don't think Garrett is a bad coach. At the same time I don't think he's really done anything that stands out as something to point to that says he's a great coach. His offense hasn't particularly wowed and the team is currently as penalty-prone as they have been at any time in the last decade with only 1 year of Wade's tenure being worse than things were in 2012.
The guy still has a lot to prove, IMO. I actually think he'll benefit from giving up the play-calling duties. Time will tell. I think anything less than a playoff appearance this year and he's going to have some serious questions to answer.