SMASHMOUTH9473;4619382 said:
Your welcome...he's been a blessing. Dr won't let him play football. He does play Little League Baseball. Hellva pitcher...smallest kid out there yet he throws strike after strike. When he throws, he's damn near impossible for the other kids to get a piece of the ball. Real deceiving just by looking at him. Only gave up 4 hits this year. Played in PeeWee division. He plays with HEART....I'M EXTREMELY PROUD OF HIM. He'll have to have more surgeries until his heart stops growing. We have told him where he came from recently... he understands. He's made me look a life differently. He's made me grow up just by being who he is. Me and God talk a lot. I'm thankful that he listened.
Man, that all sounds awesome! And your son sounds like a great boy with a great outlook, who has a great relationship with you. And it looks like you've got a smart, budding little star of a baseball player... pitcher, no less... coming up. Loved all the particulars you included. I used to watch a very special little boy (like yours) as he came up in Pee Wee Ball, too.
As it happens, my older of two sons played baseball, from Pee Wee T-Ball on up through Varsity Baseball for 3 years in HS. Lefty pitcher. At 6'4, 215, the HS Football Coach, who I knew pretty well, kept asking him if he'd consider going out for the Varsity Football team. I was even asked to put a bug in his ear about it. I asked but didn't push.
He just plainly told me he would prefer to stick with one sport, Baseball, and dedicate himself to being the best he could be. What could I say? He was carrying straight-As in all of his classes so who was I to rock his boat, even if I was the type of father to be so inclined?
I've always been very proud of him. Very close, also. In fact I moved to So. Arizona to live with him. He was here all by himself and I was living alone in another state, as it happened. He and I still get along extremely well. I tell you this to say, keep it up, it's all worth it to have the kind of supportive relationship with your son that you described.
And the last part (black
bold) sounds wonderful. You're doing it right, it seems. Again, keep it up. And keep your spirits up. The rewards will keep coming. If right wins out, I guarantee it.