AbeBeta
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There's absolutely nothing wrong with questioning whether or not an accusation is accurate. Especially in situations where there's an obvious financial incentive for the accuser to lie.
By the same token, there're also very good reasons for people to be suspicious of a player claiming innocence when they have ever incentive of their own to cover up or downplay an incident.
The reality is, all of these cases are different. Some are inexcusable. Some are more serious than others. Some percentage have been demonstrated to likely be attempts at manipulation. You have to look at each accusation and decide the merits or lack thereof separately.
Where is the incentive to lie in McDonald's case? Yes, he's a professional athlete - someone who is on his last chance and making close to the NFL minimum salary. You'd think the mother of his child would have a pretty clear understanding that he's not going to be much help if he can't work.
There is something very wrong with questioning the motive as your first move. The poster I was replying to immediately went the gold digger route in a situation where that makes very little sense. It is a stupid and sexist attitude that I'll call folks out on every time I read it.