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HeavyHitta31 said:Did he finally finish the 40 yard dash?
HeavyHitta31 said:Did he finally finish the 40 yard dash?
I for one wanted him being a Buckeye homer, I seen what he did 1st hand as a freshman. Was hoping then that it was imaturity but now this guy is just nuts what a wasteburmafrd said:I would love for some of the clarett homers to have the guts to come out and admit how wrong they were. Not going to happen though.
Phoenix-Talon said:Let me preface by saying that this isn't a fandom-related issue. In fact, it's quite common for people everywhere to stigmatize these types of situations with phrases like:
stupid
moron
crazy
losers
waste
idiot
thug
jerk
lunatic
maniac
freaking dumb
a dollar short
These are just a few examples of how we try to explain our failures (our is from a global sense of the word), and mask denials.
I don't usually jump serious like this, but this scenario sounds very familiar;
not from personal experience, but through my profession in the mental health arena. I won't take long, but I thought I'd try to edify some of you about a growing concern in our communities ...mental illness. Mental illness touches people in every facet of our lives (eg., from politics to sports).
Somewhere along the way someone failed to provide guidance for this young man. There are thousands of Claretts just waiting to happen. Some will get wraparound services from provider organizations, while others will be introduced into the criminal justice system.
I applaud the police for handling a situation that could have gone very bad. Earlier, I indicated that "we" failed Clarett. By that, I meant that there should have been measures (perhaps a safety net) to identify early stages of behavior to get some counseling, and perhaps treatment for his needs.
Uncertain about Clarett's family structure, however, in many instances, the school systems are expected to discipline students, whether they receive support at home or not. The deterioration of the nuclear family structure is an added responsiblilty becoming a commodity more often than not.
Clarett was not stupid, he was asking for help, and bringing attention to a situation that could have been worse.
Phoenix-Talon said:Let me preface by saying that this isn't a fandom-related issue. In fact, it's quite common for people everywhere to stigmatize these types of situations with phrases like:
stupid
moron
crazy
losers
waste
idiot
thug
jerk
lunatic
maniac
freaking dumb
a dollar short
These are just a few examples of how we try to explain our failures (our is from a global sense of the word), and mask denials.
I don't usually jump serious like this, but this scenario sounds very familiar;
not from personal experience, but through my profession in the mental health arena. I won't take long, but I thought I'd try to edify some of you about a growing concern in our communities ...mental illness. Mental illness touches people in every facet of our lives (eg., from politics to sports).
Somewhere along the way someone failed to provide guidance for this young man. There are thousands of Claretts just waiting to happen. Some will get wraparound services from provider organizations, while others will be introduced into the criminal justice system.
I applaud the police for handling a situation that could have gone very bad. Earlier, I indicated that "we" failed Clarett. By that, I meant that there should have been measures (perhaps a safety net) to identify early stages of behavior to get some counseling, and perhaps treatment for his needs.
Uncertain about Clarett's family structure, however, in many instances, the school systems are expected to discipline students, whether they receive support at home or not. The deterioration of the nuclear family structure is an added responsiblilty becoming a commodity more often than not.
Clarett was not stupid, he was asking for help, and bringing attention to a situation that could have been worse.
BrAinPaiNt said:Sometimes you can't force a person to accept counseling and learn from it.
They have to want it.
It seems Clarett is the type that just does not want it yet.
This may change in time or when he hits a place where HE feels he has hit the proverbial bottom and realizes there is only one way to go and that is up.
Phoenix-Talon said:Consumers (people who are receiving mental health services/require treatment) aren't always the best source to determine if counseling is needed or perhaps another form of service. Wanting counseling is completely different than "needing" counseling.
Other than a behavior gone completely dysfuntional, without having a chance to counsel Clarett, and observe him first-hand," I couldn't tell you what symptoms he is acting out. But I really do not believe it is a "developmental disability" (stupidity).