AbeBeta;2205359 said:
That was me. But you don't have to live somewhere to visit.
Trust me, a gay wingman gets a ton of chicks talking to you b/c they respect that you are secure enough to hangout out with a gay guy. You'll be pulling an entirely different (and better) class of ladies. You separate yourself from the pack with a gay wingman.
Abe, I respect you trying to get the guy to broaden his horizons, but if they really don't have anything in common, gay or not, the guy can't/won't be his wingman. They won't like each other enough to hang out with one another.
It's one thing to engage a friendship with someone you don't have much in common with, it's another when you don't have
anything in common. There's gotta be a foundation of sorts for their "relationship" to go any further. Right now, there doesn't seem to be.
I'm sure through the course of the semester, they may have a conversation to really gauge what they have in common, but if I'm him, I'm not forcing the issue. I'd rather hang w/the people who I have a little bit in common with. establish a group of buddies, and then expand upon that.