Hostile;1460315 said:
Where'd you go when you struck out on your own? If you don't mind me asking.
I turned 16 about a month after moving out. Filed for emancipation and received it. I lived with a teammate from our football team who parents had both died in a car crash and left him with his grandparents. They were both in poor health and Al and I pretty much had the run of the house. I went out got a job, played ball and continued in school until I joined the Army at 17. Jacked my knee up playing ball and pretty much shot my chances of a scholarship so I went the Army route. Served Honorably for 4 years, went to the Gulf for the first dance and got out and began my life.
A lot of people tell me how crappy I had it, but to be honest, living the way we did always being the new kid taught me two things.
1. I learned how to fight, because I was always being picked on as the new kid. So when I went to a new school I would try to find the toughest kid there and pick a fight with him to earn some cred. I won some and I lost some, but I learned that no matter how hard you get beat down you can always get back up. I apply that to my personal life now.
2. I learned that nothing in life is given to you, you have to go out and take what you want. Persistence is the key to chasing your dreams and because of that, I am launching our race series this year. It took me 7 years to do it, but I am quite proud of the fact, that I stuck with it and was able to get this off the ground. I wont go into boring details, but it is a pretty big deal.
I can honestly say that I am proud of my life and of who I am. I have a few regrets as we all tend to make ignorant choices during the course of our life, but the way I was raised prepared me for the challenges that I faced later in adulthood.
For those of you who are curious, yes I still have a relationship with my parents. They still live the way we grew up, they are living in a converted 5th wheel trailer that they built a little room off of for the living room. I don't hold grudges against them, but I don't respect them much either. I find it hard to accept the lifestyle they have chosen, but I also realize that I no longer have to live that way, so life goes on.
Well, that was way more than I was planning on saying, and I apologize to those of you who could care less, but I wanted to answer Hostile's question
in detail.
/end rant... LOL
Jon