Is Jerry to blame if a good offer is made but refused? Is it then incumbent on Jerry to just cave in to dak's demands? Regardless of the effect it would have on the rest of the team?
This all depends on perception. Shouldn't it be Dak who decides what is a good offer? Didn't Jones cave in to Zeke's demands? Isn't that the only reason Zeke isn't held to the same standard as Dak, simply because Jerry did cave in?
Everybody else in that draft got paid before Dak. Zeke got paid even after holding out before his contract was up and despite the suspensions that probably cost the Cowboys a game or two. Jaylon Smith got paid despite missing his entire rookie season and only starting 6 games the next season. Even Anthony Brown got paid.
Zeke 's rookie contract was 25 million including a 16 million signing bonus and it wasn't good enough after the first three years. Meanwhile, Dak, the 2016 Rookie of the Year and two time Pro Bowler, made slightly less than 5 million over his 4 seasons. Why shouldn't Dak feel like he's owed some back pay? Why shouldn't he feel like it's somebody else's turn to be the Bargain of the Century?
Goff, the #1 overall pick in the 2016 draft got 28 million. Is it Dak's fault that the NFL did not correctly evaluate his abilities, causing him to fall to the 4th round? No doubt, Dak would have been a top ten pick if anyone suspected what he was capable of doing. Looking back, he would never have been considered a bust as a #1 pick, the team would still have been celebrated for their shrewd scouting.
Still, suppose the Cowboys were to pay Dak 200 million for the next four seasons. Combine that with Dak's first four seasons. That would average out to less than 26 million per year for 8 seasons, four which has been completed, four which remains at that average. That "8 year contract" would still be heralded as the "Bargain of the Century"
Dak has been the consummate professional through all of this. He hasn't held out, complained, postured, threatened, or used the media to strike at Jerry. However, Jerry has used the media to to influence the perception of fans. Jerry, who has always prided himself as a deal maker is upset because Dak wasn't being "team friendly", the one guy that has every right not to be team friendly.
If Jerry is concerned about the effect on the salary cap then he should have considered that around this same time last season when he rewarded the holdout and disrespected the man who hasn't missed a start in his first four seasons.