anj113;4622945 said:
Ok so lets say like some are you saying she is a crackhead, etc, she is still a woman, you should NEVER ever hit a woman as a man.. SO please for the love of god stop with the excuses... The man is guilty and has a long long road if he wants to be great, or at the very least live up to the expectaions that some Cowboy fans annoint him as the best in the game.. Its a joke
I agree, a man should not ever hit a woman. Sure, there could be an extenuating circumstance and used as a last resort only.
For example, If I saw a woman with a bat in her hand wailing on my daughter, she would cease to exist, end of story. I know that does not apply here, but to say NEVER hit a woman, never say never.
On to Dez's mother. As far as I know, she was not beating on someone to the point of a fatality. She has probably been mooching off her son for a couple of years now, taking that money to buy crack or whatever and Dez got tired of it and confronted her. We know his mom is not the most stable of people, maybe she went crazy when he said no more money? We don't know.
This is a family from a broken home, me (among most on here I am sure) can't relate to the things going on in his own. It is unfair for us to speculate, point fingers, declare the death penalty, or whatever.
Dez did do the right thing and turn himself in. Now, was he coerced into doing so? maybe, maybe not, again, we do not know!
Hopefully this shed some light onto him and he might just realize he needs to keep his distance from his family and those friends that are only there to use him.
We all will see in the near future how this effects him and if he truly makes a change. Point is....lets not make a mountain of a mole-hill until we know the full details.
Idk about that
