To me fear is the wrong word. I don't fear someone breaking into my home. In fact I consider the possibility rather remote. I don't know a word other than prepared. I try and be prepared for a lot of things. Both of my vehicles have flashlights and a pair of pantyhose in them. You can use pantyhose to repair a broken fan belt in an emergency. Both have water too. I don't have the there because I fear anything. I have them so I don't have to be in a bad situation.
For me guns serve several purposes. Only one of them is protection. I just flat out enjoy going out and shooting. Especially at targets. I like out shooting a friend or family member and I usually do. I like that boys who come to date my daughters don't just see a big guy, they see a big guy who has guns and can use them.
I don't hunt any more, but if a catastrophe happened I would to feed my family. A lot of people would go hungry. I won't. I have a food storage for this exact same reason. I can live on rice and beans for a long time, but a steak now and ten would not hurt my feelings at all.
To me, it isn't fear, it is preparedness. I have fire extinguishers too. Guess what, I am not afraid of fires. I fought them for 7 years.
Fear is the wrong way of looking at it. IMO.