You might not fear fire itself...you do fear the idea of what a fire can do, whether that be ruin your house and belongings within, hurting your family and so on.
Fear is a great motivator and everyone seems to think it is a negative. I don't see it that way I just see it as what it is.
If you had no fear whatsoever of a fire happening, if there were fires ever in houses...we would not need fire ext or fire would not be included in insurances because it would just not be needed.
Just as my tornado example...you won't find hard any storm shelters for tornados where I live but I bet you it is common place if you live in tornado alley...sure it is to be prepared but you are being prepared because you fear if you did not your family could be seriously injured. I see owning a gun for home security and saying it as being prepared as the same thing. You fear the idea of what would happen if you had an intruder break into your house and what he could do...therefore you have something ready in case he does.
If you truly had no fear of what could happen, you would not buy a gun and say that it is for home defense. If nobody ever broke into a house or if it is was very very rare where you lived...chances are that your fear of that happening would be next to nil. If it happens quite often where you live, you would be more apt to get a gun for that reason and you would have a justifiable fear of something happening to you or your family.
It's not a bad thing, it is not saying it is not being prepared, it IS being prepared because you have a fear of something happening.
I really don't get why people would argue that point at all unless they think it is a negative that makes them seem like a wimp or something.