Horrible advice. Do what's right for you and your family. If you die of a heart attack is that doing your family any good?
My bad, I didn't realize that he was so delicate that a commute would kill him which millions upon millions of people do every day
FWIW, I meant do it for his family, not just thinking about himself. I commute as does my wife so the kids can live in the best situation possible. He lives in Seattle which I know very well and I think a commute is a good idea there as there are a lot of suburban areas to live in that are much nicer than the inner city.
Of course you look at what is best for the person AND the family but I stated not to make a decision based solely on his commute time. Many of us drive to work from a ways out, it is a bit dramatic to say he drops dead of a heart attack from sitting in a car/boat!
If that added stress causes a heart ailment, then there are bigger issues to tackle..........