I am choking

[RoyTheHammer]

I hate myself. I hate myself. I hate myself. she didn;t deserve this. My kids didn't deserve a cheating father. Man I hate myself.

Relax man. Like everyone has said, people make mistakes.. especially when alcohol is involved. You seem like a good guy. After 13 years i'd expect your wife would know that you aren't the type to do anything to hurt her. What you did wasn't the worst thing in the world. Just collect your emotions, and your thoughts, and decide what you think is right. Don't let this eat you up and destroy you.. everyone messes up.

 

[Shunpike]

Relax man. Like everyone has said, people make mistakes.. especially when alcohol is involved. You seem like a good guy. After 13 years i'd expect your wife would know that you aren't the type to try and hurt her. What you did wasn't the worst thing in the world. Just collect your emotions, and your thoughts, and decide what you think is right. Don't let this eat you up and destroy you.. everyone messes up.

Roy

How am I going to teach my kids about honesty? How am I going to teach them not to cheat? How am I going to teach them to be family man and give me grand kids? Man this is hard. Believe me it is hard. Not easy. I am writing it here easily because nobody knows me here and I am opening up honestly.

Man I messed up.

 

[Hoofbite]

..and this is why you don't come to a message board for advice on these kinds of things.

Hahaha. Pretty much what I thought.

 

[RoyTheHammer]

Roy

How am I going to teach my kids about honesty? How am I going to teach them not to cheat? How am I going to teach them to be family man and give me grand kids? Man this is hard. Believe me it is hard. Not easy. I am writing it here easily because nobody knows me here and I am opening up honestly.

Man I messed up.

You learn from your experiences and teach them the same. Just because you, like everyone else, made a mistake doesn't mean you forfeit your ability to teach right from wrong.

 

[TwoCentPlain]

No I am not trolling or seeking attention. I am a Giants fan on a Cowboys board. I had many opportunities to troll or get attention. Look at my post count and decide on your own if I am trolling. This is an issue eating me live and I can't seek guidance from family or friends about. Better open up at a board where you are nobody. But again thanks for your comments

Tell your wife and family that you have something to confess when they get back. Tell them you became a Dallas Cowboys fan while they were away. And leave it at that.

 

[Gemini Dolly]

Tell your wife and family that you have something to confess when they get back. Tell them you became a Dallas Cowboys fan while they were away. And leave it at that.

/thread

 

[Shunpike]

Not that easy to become a Boys fan when your team won 2 SB's in the last 5 years. She won't believe me for sure

 

[CATCH17]

You're a Giants fan?

Tell her

 

[theogt]

Roy

How am I going to teach my kids about honesty? How am I going to teach them not to cheat? How am I going to teach them to be family man and give me grand kids? Man this is hard. Believe me it is hard. Not easy. I am writing it here easily because nobody knows me here and I am opening up honestly.

Man I messed up.

As they say, those who can't do, teach.

 

[burmafrd]

realistically this is truly a small thing. Booze makes people stupid without exception. If you were TRULY hammered then it is NOT that bad.

Bottom line is this:

you pretty much seem like a guy who cannot shrug this off

if that is so then you sit her down and tell her that you got hammered and kissed someone. And that is all.

then pay the price as from this moment on she owns you totally

 

[Section446]

Me personally, I'd simply come clean and show remorse.

 

[MonsterD]

I hate myself. I hate myself. I hate myself. she didn;t deserve this. My kids didn't deserve a cheating father. Man I hate myself.

Are you like 13? Jeezus get over it. Now if you had sex then the next thing you do is call a lawyer and draw up the divorce papers.

 

[basstapp]

Your wife deserves to know the truth. I would rather come clean and put my marriage in the hands of woman I have been married to for 13 years then in the hands of a cowboys fan forum

 

[Shunpike]

I got necessary messages from this thread. Now that judging and mockery has started, I will kindly ask an admin or a mod to lock the thread please. Thanks to all who expressed their opinions.

 

[MonsterD]

I got necessary messages from this thread. Now that judging and mockery has started, I will kindly ask an admin or a mod to lock the thread please. Thanks to all who expressed their opinions.

What I should have said is that if you seriously think your wife is going to go ballistic and divorce you over this then you married the wrong person.