Champsheart
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ScottCase said:really - I don;t know if it's b/c I'm a New Yorker and I'm impatient and angry as a rule....but this board is just so reserved and understanding of today's loss!!
Today's loss was a heart ripper Bro!!! It's a crusher!!! We shut down Moss and lost! and ...and! The Jints -Iggles and Skins all won!
Today friends....was miserable....MISERABLE!
Bill Parcells is LOST! LOST!! 4-3 ..3-4...4-3...3-4 ..What are we! And why wasn't T-New on Moss all day!? And why is Roy playing silky soft? And why didn't we run blitz more! And how in the world do we not get in from the 3 with the game on the line and the Eagles awaiting us next week...
AND WHO THE HELL EVER SAID THE FADE ROUTE WAS THE WAY TO GIVE UP ON 3RD DOWN!!
AND LASTLY! Why Wasn't Jason Witten used in the goal line series?
I'm Sick! I have been angry since the final whistle...and I can't let it go....that's a fan! Not someone who comes here and tells us to be calm and that we're Skins fans in disguise NO! We are the real fans...the ones that are in pain...not denial.
I think judging by your post it is important for you to understand a couple of things.
You are sick, pissed off, you can not let it go, you are angry. Ok I think we all understand that, but you say this makes you a real fan because you are in pain.
Well I can guarantee you all "real" Cowboy fans are in pain after any loss.
And, I can also tell you everyone handles pain in different ways, that is just life.
Just because you are so pissed off does not mean your pain is any more than someone taking a completely different approach to how they handle it.
I have been a Cowboys Fan since 1976. I have been through a lot of losses, and I am in extreme pain after every single one.
In the late 80's early 90's I actually would get so furious I would at times break furniture, and even a TV set once. Nothing I am proud of at all, but I am sure you would see that as validation to my loyalty to the Cowboys judging by your post.
I also handled a lot of pains and disappointments in life the same way.
As I got older, matured, and had a family I began to learn how to handle life's disappointments a little differently, and yes I would consider Cowboy loses as life disappointments.
I no longer break things, and I now handle things much different. I have to because my wife and kids see me, and I want to set a good example for them.
I want to show them how to handle disappointments better than what I did.
I can guarantee you that I am in as much pain as any Cowboy fan in existence. I too have replayed many plays from yesterdays game in my head, and it is more painfull everytime. Shoot, I am still replayinig the Commander game in my mind. IT HURTS BAD!
But, when I am going through this I like to come here and try to calm people down, help see the positives, but also look at what we need to do to improve. It is like therapy for me, it helps me get through it. That is now how I try to handle life's pains. Just my way, and honestly has really benefited me as I have gotten older.
Many others are probably the same way, others probably get depressed and do not even come around, others get pissed and blame everybody and everything, others make jokes, others do not acknowledge it happened, others make excuses.
It is just all human nature, and this is a place for us all to express ourselves however we need to, to get through the pain and disappointment.
That is just something that is different for each person, just as each person handles life in a different way, but we all usually get through it.
This place helps me, and I am sure others, and I thank everyone for that.
So do not think just because your pain is filled with anger and disappointment, and that is how you express it, that makes you a "real fan".
It only makes you like the rest of us, and lets us know how you get through it, which is ok, that is what we are here for.