The Cowboy loss was tough, for sure, and I know you're a big fan, but it is times like these that demand a little perspective. I found this (below) on the web. It's a bit long...but I think it makes an excellent point.
Get back to life. Next season, you can get fired up about the Cowboys. They will be ready to win it all.
Once upon a time, I liked to get into the stadium early. While others cooked their brats, nibbled on their deviled eggs and sipped their martini’s in the parking lot, I skipped the tailgate to watch the kickers, punters and quarterbacks warm-up. I went for the game, not the gloss, and to watch the warriors of the gridiron limber for battle only added to the excitement.
Or did, I should say. You see, one day not too long ago, I found a paradox waiting for me inside Lambeau Field.
My wife’s family has great seats to see the Packers: Forty yard line behind the home team, off an aisle, with only the nicest, most loyal fans crowded around. After I weaved through the green and gold throngs to my seat, I flipped through the program to update my memory to the opposing team’s line-up. I had spent a good two hours listening to the pre-game radio shows on the drive to Green Bay and another thirty minutes bent over the morning paper consuming the local analysis with my pancakes. Still, I wanted more.
At the corner of my eye, I noticed a long column of geriatric humanity creeping from the home team’s tunnel on to the field. The line started with the old and ended with the ancient. Some hobbled with canes, others glided in wheelchairs. Broken and bent, bowed and wrinkled, they seemed to be marching to a beat all their own. When the parade ended at the thirty-yard line, over fifty of them stood at differing levels of teetering attention toward the far side-line.
A dozen young army soldiers, tight and buttoned in their dress green, escorted a few of the more unstable in the group. The leader of the procession, a surprisingly frail-looking officer wearing the foppish black army beret, flitted around them like an overly expressive dance teacher trying to get her ballerinas in order.
I immediately assumed that these old men had once served in the military and had all received some prestigious honor. The overhead announcer clarified my speculation: Each of these veterans had earned a Congressional Medal of Honor. Apparently, the CMH Reunion was in Green Bay that weekend. Who knew?
Let me first say that I am an ardent student of military history. I devour even the most obscure military texts just so I can reexamine battles I have reexamined a hundred times before. In my modest library, I even have a cheap paperback, dog-eared and tattered, that listed every single CMH recipient. I won’t bore you with what it means to earn the CMH except to say that anyone who wears that fancy bauble around their neck at one point in his or her life decided and acted on the premise that the lives of others – usually a comrade or comrades — was more important than his or her own.
So you can imagine how I felt when I saw all those brave men before me. It was like having Paul McCartney, Steve Wonder, Elton John and every single major music star of the last fifty years gather in one place. I probably had read about half the men down there. And there they were, in the flesh.
Time did not permit each name to be announced, so the veterans were called out on to the field by the war in which they fought. First the Gulf War group, then Vietnam and Korea, and finally the World War II vets. Constant applause rained down from all around the stadium, which was not a surprise. Wisconsin folk know the value of their soldiers, and would have applauded if this was a line of army clerks who had earned Purple Hearts getting paper cuts in the mail room.
I learned later that the Army has sponsored the CMH event as a recruiting tool – at half-time a bunch of raw recruits marched clumsily out on to midfield for a swearing-in ceremony – but even so, it was proud moment that brought me almost to warm, honest tears. If I was young and eager, I might have enlisted right then and there.
As I sat down on the bleachers to redeploy my thoughts back to the game, I found that I had lost focus. There I was, bundled in my fifty-dollar Packer jersey, straining to see the last of the veterans stagger back into the tunnel. The game suddenly had no meaning. What was a football game compare to men who might have risked everything in some airless desert or some unpronounceable forest in Europe with tree-bursts exploding overhead? It was like I had gone to a hot dog stand for some food and, suddenly, Wolfgang Puck yanked me into some side alley to show me his latest gourmet sensation.
I went to Lambeau Field to see a battlefield of sorts, but instead all I saw was an expensive stretch of artificial grass, not worthy of those old veterans who had marched along its edge. My sense of self-conflict only grew when the teams were announced: The starting Quarterback of the Green Bay Packers received a deafening cheer that made the applause for the veterans seem tame in comparison.
My wife found me in the stands just as roar of the crowd softened to noisy clatter. In her hands she carried a diet coke and a brat slathered in mustard and onions. “Here,” she said. “Are you ready for battle?”