First off, I see the wife left her guard down and you made it back on the internet...
As to off cuff, criminal activity, or just plain blatant attitude fit as poorly now, as it did back then. Haley was confrontational to co players from the start. He peed on the car of a coach in the team's parking lot...THAT is when he was offered to Dallas. He got into continual confrontations and fights with team mates in Dallas, UNTIL Chad Hennings grabbed him; lifted him off the ground; and slammed him into a locker. He suddenly saw the light, changed, and was more supportive in and outside of the lockerroom. Yea, really different stuff with a cherry picked time line that is also supposed to make your own arrogance palatable.
Bloke? Ever see a recruiter...much less play football at a collegiate level? Naw, keep on trying to impress the newly arrived preppies to the burn barrel bunch.
Simply stated, standards for conduct applied then, now, and into the future...