Doomsday101 said:
Only if you believe that TO actually can respect Parcells, I don't think TO knows what the word respect means to begin with. Bill has flat out told Key to shut up and Key backs off when Bill tells that to TO does he take it or does he throw a fit? TO has to prove himself as a changed man and until he does I have a lot of doubts about him.
Actually, I think TO is all about respect. He's just got a twisted view of what it is. I think his will to earn respect is why he holds himself to such high standards of conditioning and performance. I think his standards of respect are what got him in position to play with injury in the SuperBowl. Or why he catches 20 balls in Jerry Rice's last home game.
His reactions to a perceived *lack* of respect are what creates problems for him. See: Mariucci when he got suspended for standing on the star. See: Philly's FO made its mistakes with TO by allowing him to feel disrespected after the SuperBowl, or TO comparing himself to a player like McNabb who clearly can't make the physical and emotional commitments TO makes. See: Philly not recognizing his 100th TD catch, etc. See: how he reacts when he feels like Philly is disrespecting him with his compensation package, or why TO can't shake George Teague's hand after 4 years.
Dallas's challenge is to get him a contract and a situation where he'll feel he gets the respect he deserves. I don't know that that's possible, but that's the only way you manage TO. Problem is, you have no control over how much respect he thinks he deserves. It means money, and latitude. It means handling every situation exactly right or risking irreparable damage to his fragile ego. It means handling the press properly, and making sure teammates handle their business properly. It's a *huge* commitment.
It's also the reason I don't hate TO. I pity him, because I think his worldview is twisted. At the same time, I admire the fact that he can walk his talk--unbelievable considering the mouth on this guy. He's a science experiment. It's pointless to get too emotionally wrapped up in a science experiment. You either handle him, or you don't.
I think Parcells, with the emphasis he places on sports psychology, understands the deal and thinks he can probably handle him. I'm not so sure he can, but if he does, I think this one player instantly makes us contenders in the NFC.