The one time allegations against Hardy were never that he "beat the crap out of a woman". Your disingenuous description of the allegations is growing very old. The pictures that you love to point out to support your opinion are only described to depict some redness and scratches. Surely a big dude like Hardy would have done more damage to his dainty GF had he actually "beat the crap" out of her. It's more likely the photos, which were provided by her(not the police) depict self inflicted anomalies to her skin... an opinion shared by the man placed in charged of prosecuting Hardy in the jury trial that ultimately never took place. The GF's lack of cooperation was the reason given for the dropped charges but the pitiful lack of evidence to support the charges was "the straw that broke the camels back", to use the words of DA Murray. You Rogah, need to man up to the real facts in the case that exonerated our man Hardy and immediately cease and desist impugning his character.
Rogah's on his own with his interpretation, but the team's been pretty clear in all of their public comments on the subject that Hardy understands that he did something wrong in the incident. I don't believe for a second that he's innocent of anything.
I believe that it was a really, really dysfunctional situation where she was abusing substances and abusive and he responded in kind, probably including using threats to try to get her to leave. I believe when things settled down, both sides realized they'd behaved poorly...abusively, and they reconciled with a settlement that was in everybody's best interests. I believe there wasn't enough to continue to prosecute, and that some of what she said at the time of the police report was later seen to likely be inaccurate which made her entire testimony suspect.
I also think Hardy's a nut who's fairly unstable which is part of what makes him such a good football player. I think he's probably not all that bad a guy, and he's probably a good teammate and an ok risk for a long-term signing. But it's clear from how he's behaved and how the club has handled his offseason that he was responsible for some wrongdoing in this incident. From a purely football perspective, since it's why he was available to come to Dallas, there's a good and bad side to that that we just have to live with.