Poll: The four types of Cowboys fans

Which type of Cowboys fan are you?


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First Idgit i like your post. Not because i agree with it (all of it) but because it animates me to think about what you wrote. And to me its worth spending time to think about the influences that shape peoples behaviours.

I think there is a correlation between peoples expectations and their acting as fans. Expectations of course emerge from the success or failure of whatever you are cheering for. But not only from that. Some people may have low expectations even when their team has success. Others have high ones even when their team is losing. There are also expectations for short-dated success (like winning the next game) or long-time success (like winning the SB in 2018). How can that be explained ?
Those differences (to me) originate from peoples character and upbringing (school, parents, community etc...). So you are right expectations are not the reason or do not determine what kind of fans people are - of course - because this is a trivial statement: expectation is not a characteristic (trait) of a person but a "result" of their traits. Traits determine what kind of fans we are like they determine our expectations. BUT with that said you can conclude from someones expectation to what kind of fan he is. There to me is the correlation. So to me its not that simple like you wrote in your first sentence.

And it puts the initial post in a different light because the OP did not say that someone could determine fans by their expectations (like you stated). He just asked what kind of fan someone is (he ask about our traits). But he also said that someone can "drift" thru different categories. And that because the circumstances (hence his expectations) change. This is a bold statement where i cant say its right or not. I believe your expectations are bound to your character and ubringing and so their are the fundament of your future life. But then i would not say that you cant change those traits. If that wouldnt be possible it would put in question Freud, Jung, Watzlawik and every other psychologist their is.

I do like the initial post. Not because i think its sound just because i like the funny side of it. Its hard to (not possible) to categoize people without making errors. The statistic always is the death of the individual. I - for instance - cant find myself in those 4 categories. Because their descriptions dont fit the way i view myself. Still i like the survey.

To me, it is pretty dangerous (and really kind of narcissistic) to infer someone's character by posts on a pro football message board. In your post, "Character" is a driving force for expectations. If person A's expectations on a passive activity which he/she has no bearing to the outcome is to generally "hope for the best" where person B see's the same thing and expects the worse, that has nothing to do with character but with processing information - which some is learned by experience, observation, etc nd drawing a conclusion - its formulation of judgement. Watching something passively from afar and blindly "expecting the best outcome" can also be detrimental and show arguably poor "character." I probably cant get into this deep, but this was/is a main tenant of religion where total acceptance is required. Arguably, this is great for people when the leader is sound of character, but when you get a Jim Jones, putting blind faith in something wasnt very beneficial or noble. This cant be swept away as "only those with bad character" would follow him. Another example is responding to a person with a drug addiction. Some pray and hope others practice tough love and cut off. Both of those can be reasoned responses and dont necessarily demonstrate better/worse character

For fan "typology," to me, you have to start with the simple premise that the entire modus is irrational. Sport teams are usually set in childhood and rarely change. It is more rational to follow a player as a person with a connection or to seek out being entertained by the best product. This rarely happens. But I digress, if fandom is based in some a degree of irrationality, trying to determine someone's behavior/response to that stimuli is an exercise in futility.

As I stated before, "this" (fandom collectively cheering, complaining, posting) is about entertainment and nostalgia on an irrational base. Fandom and now message boards satisfies and a basic human need for belonging (group of fans of same team, group of people with religion, group of people). When people get together, smaller factions form with similar beliefs. What you hope to get is rational dialogue to a fundamental irrational subject (all 22 review, statistical corroboration, etc, etc,), but this need to continually assign labels and extrapolate character and humanity is an effort in futility.

I have seen roughly the following 2 statements here:
  1. I never expect/pick the Cowboys to lose, its not in my nature to be negative
  2. The Cowboys will never win because Jerry/Jason/culture is fundamentally flawed
While both of these are extreme and absolute statements, the first is almost solipsistic as the persons own thoughts are the only truth. It is almost as good as "They always win because I think they should." The second, while polar and likely as wrong, at least attribute the view to a reason. I have never seen anyone say I always pick dallas to lose because they should. teh vast majority of people will lie in the middle and be malleable to degrees (in my view high correlation with more rational employed)

All this label is also likely to meet a need to for an individual to explain why their view is right and everyone else isnt smart enough to see it. Ego plays a big part here and you can tell who has the biggest ego by those who cant take an opposing view or handle being called on an incorrect view.

Maybe that ironically circles back to character, but you will rarely/never get one group to acquiesce they are just as guilty as another
 

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Some straddle the fence between the nut bar. Surely anyone can see the rational of a low football IQ in the Jones Camp. Then again by the time the Draft and Free Agency is over my shattered glass is all flowing over the top, except for 2014 when last season they exceeded all my expectations for the first time since ... a life time or three.

My completely shattered view will mend and then be shattered again on the next plane crash ... it's a day that never comes and never ends.
 

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Last year we are a top team and this year we are bottom feeders. Tough, but it weeds out the people who are not true fans !!!!

Last year I was Jiminy Cricket dancing merrily along at Disney World. This year I feel like a crippled cricket dragging my butt across 80-grit sandpaper.
 

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The four types of Cowboy fans:

1) The glass is spilling over: This type of fan thinks we are Superbowl bound every year. They get mad at every negative news article, negative post, etc…. They do not want to hear anything negative about the team they love. They accept anything the team does and gives it their full support. They would never post anything negative themselves.

2) The glass is half full: this type of fan thinks we are almost there just a step away from the Superbowl held out only by injuries or bad luck and next year will be our year. This fan can tolerate a little bit of negative news, post, etc… but not too many. They almost always make positive post but occasionally can drift to the negative side albeit temporarily.

3) The glass is half empty: this type of fan loves the Cowboys but sees issues they desperately want corrected whether it is the owner, the coach, or a player. They could never root for another team but are unhappy due to issues they want corrected. They tend to post negative things and at times get carried away with it due to frustration but will also defend other areas of the team that think are positive.

4) The glass is shattered: this type of fan can’t seem to find anything positive about the team. They are mad at everything usually blaming the owner for anything and everything.

Although these are stereotypes, I think it sums up most Cowboy fans. Truth is most fans drift between the types at different times. I personally have been type 1,2, & 3 over the years and it changes with the team’s success. I lean to #3 at the moment but I started the year as a # 2 based on last season. When I was a child in the 70’s and during the 90’s, I was squarely a # 1. I think most fans are firmly entrenched as # 2’s or # 3’s at the moment and that can create a little friction and frustration on the forum. One thing we all need to realize is that we all love the team even the # 4’s.

Im have typically been type 3. Right now, I am type 4. But honestly I have been all 4 at times when it applies. Its predicated on how good the team is and the makeup of the team. I dont know how a fan can be anything else. Like the team itself, your satisfaction and or frustration associated with that team and the people running and playing it should go proportionately up and down accordingly.
 

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I would narrow it down to two different kinds of fans. In all fan bases, we're not special.

1) Those that look for reasons to paint the picture they want to see every year. Regardless of the actual state of the team. Their opinions are programmed and predictable. These people are often times overly sensitive to any team criticism and are probably 99.9% of the cause of any tension on a message board like this one.

2) Those that determine their own optimism and pessimism on their own evaluation of the state of the team. They may be right or wrong, but they are not letting laundry cloud their vision. I tend to take these folks far more seriously than the former even if I staunchly disagree with their stance on any issue.

Wow did you nail that one. And especially the comment about #1 being the reason for 99.9 % of the tension on a message board.
 

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There's no good reason why people's expectations ought to determine the kinds of fans they are. I don't like even categorizing them on that basis.

The real differentiator is the way in which different people handle disappointment. We all handle excitement similarly. But when we don't get what we want or what we expect, the real differences come out.

Nobody's happy with the outcome of this season, no matter how empty or full their glass usually is.

For me, what separates one fan from the other is their ability to properly analyze the team, its owner, and its coaches as well as the game of football in general.

Secondary would be for a fan to admit when they are wrong and come to grips with that.
 

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I'm the half full kinda a guy.
It pisses me off those that want to loose out.

Right back at you. It pisses me off when a fan cant see the bigger benefit of losing out as opposed to winning a few meaningless games. We could go from the 8th pick to the 2nd pick depending on how this plays out in the final week. If you would rather win a meaningless game with a backup nobody so you can wave your pom poms and get the 8th pick rather then get the 2nd pick then I truly have to question your motives. They are certainly more self serving then for that of the team. The team is markedly better off with the 2nd pick then winning this game. And I would never expect the team to try and lose a game. Which they wont. But quite clearly in the back of anyones mind that truly cares about the future of the future of the Cowboys wants the higher pick and would not be truly disappointed if we lost this last game.
 

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To me, it is pretty dangerous (and really kind of narcissistic) to infer someone's character by posts on a pro football message board. In your post, "Character" is a driving force for expectations. If person A's expectations on a passive activity which he/she has no bearing to the outcome is to generally "hope for the best" where person B see's the same thing and expects the worse, that has nothing to do with character but with processing information - which some is learned by experience, observation, etc nd drawing a conclusion - its formulation of judgement. Watching something passively from afar and blindly "expecting the best outcome" can also be detrimental and show arguably poor "character." I probably cant get into this deep, but this was/is a main tenant of religion where total acceptance is required. Arguably, this is great for people when the leader is sound of character, but when you get a Jim Jones, putting blind faith in something wasnt very beneficial or noble. This cant be swept away as "only those with bad character" would follow him. Another example is responding to a person with a drug addiction. Some pray and hope others practice tough love and cut off. Both of those can be reasoned responses and dont necessarily demonstrate better/worse character

For fan "typology," to me, you have to start with the simple premise that the entire modus is irrational. Sport teams are usually set in childhood and rarely change. It is more rational to follow a player as a person with a connection or to seek out being entertained by the best product. This rarely happens. But I digress, if fandom is based in some a degree of irrationality, trying to determine someone's behavior/response to that stimuli is an exercise in futility.

As I stated before, "this" (fandom collectively cheering, complaining, posting) is about entertainment and nostalgia on an irrational base. Fandom and now message boards satisfies and a basic human need for belonging (group of fans of same team, group of people with religion, group of people). When people get together, smaller factions form with similar beliefs. What you hope to get is rational dialogue to a fundamental irrational subject (all 22 review, statistical corroboration, etc, etc,), but this need to continually assign labels and extrapolate character and humanity is an effort in futility.

I have seen roughly the following 2 statements here:
  1. I never expect/pick the Cowboys to lose, its not in my nature to be negative
  2. The Cowboys will never win because Jerry/Jason/culture is fundamentally flawed
While both of these are extreme and absolute statements, the first is almost solipsistic as the persons own thoughts are the only truth. It is almost as good as "They always win because I think they should." The second, while polar and likely as wrong, at least attribute the view to a reason. I have never seen anyone say I always pick dallas to lose because they should. teh vast majority of people will lie in the middle and be malleable to degrees (in my view high correlation with more rational employed)

All this label is also likely to meet a need to for an individual to explain why their view is right and everyone else isnt smart enough to see it. Ego plays a big part here and you can tell who has the biggest ego by those who cant take an opposing view or handle being called on an incorrect view.

Maybe that ironically circles back to character, but you will rarely/never get one group to acquiesce they are just as guilty as another

First i want to clarify some things you seem to have missinterpreted:

My post was not so much about fandom in general or the fans here on this board. Fandom was just the hook in the initial post for - to me - a much more fascinating topic.

Also i do think you missunderstood my use of the word character. And its a bit bothering that your whole answer is build upon a grading into "good" and "bad". That is not what my intention was in my post. I did not grade.

When i use the word character i mean the fundament that makes you the person you are. This is your genes and your epigenetics (Thats the common agreement of todays science of what shapes your character). But this alone is not enough to describe why you are the person you are. There are also external influences which - over a lifespan - let you be the person you are. In short: character and upbringing are the fundaments of you as a human. That again is not my thesis but the status of knowledge of human science today.

I never said that I or anybody can (fully) infer the character of people. That was not my intention either. But thats your interpretation of my post - which could be also seen as narcissistic in some kind of way. ;-)

After i have clarified that let me give you some answers to your thoughts:

If person A's expectations on a passive activity which he/she has no bearing to the outcome is to generally "hope for the best" where person B see's the same thing and expects the worse, that has nothing to do with character but with processing information - which some is learned by experience, observation, etc nd drawing a conclusion - its formulation of judgement.

What you wrote is not a priori wrong. But to me its not thought thru to the end. Let me explain:

Of course the way you stated it is (one possible) way humans come to conclusions. But the important thing you left out is "interpretation": All those things that happen to you, those experiences you make, the observations - all those stimulations of your sensors - are interpreted by you. And the interpretation of "things" is based on your character: Your epigenetic decides which genes are going to be activated when you experience certain stimulations. This process is what i call interpretation. Because your genes and epigenetic are/is unique the interpretation and therfore the kind of human you are and will be in the future is unique.

Consequently those "judgements" (like you call it) or the conclusions (i find the word more fitting) you make as a human when you (rationaly) process information are influenced by your character (= genes/epigenetic).

Further more the interpretation lets your brain build its synapses. That means that the way you think in the future about the things that happend to you in the past is based on your interpretation-process hence your character hence your genetics.

Very simplistic spoken (please dont take that as an argument against me): Thats the reason why humans with exactly the same experience come to different conclusions. The reason is NOT because what happend was different. And with comming to a conclusion i dont necessarily mean that this is a conscious process. This is rather something unconscious but it shapes your behaviour, your feelings etc... - all those things you are not concious of - and therefore all the (unconscious) decissions you will make in the future.

A small example: Lets take for instance a small child which parents will get divorced. One child may suffer maybe will - in his later life - have addiction issues (alcohol, drugs, games etc ...). Another child may suffer also but has somehow the "ability" to handle the "problem" and may even get out of it as a stronger person. The first child may need help from the outside (positive influences) like a good teacher, good friends, a good surrounding. The other may not need those things and still get thru this phase of his life. The way those two childs develop is based on their character and how they interprete the things that "threaten" their autonomy - or else - their own ability to survive. That "ability" to "survive bad circumstances" is your character its your epigentic and genes. And this has nothing to do with grading something.

The character defines such fundamental things as desideratum. Which is trivial because your fundamental needs are there to show you what you need to survive. And what you need to survive (food, sleep, motion etc ...) is based on your individual (physical) needs - and thats based on your genes hence your character.

Everything we experience in life and we take as facts is always only our interpretation of what happend, of what we experienced - its entirely subjectiv. Thats also the reason why there is no so called "absolut knowledge". No serious natural scientist will ever tell you that we will ever know how the world works. Its always an incrementalism to the truth but we will never know the "real" truth.

That said: The processing of information OF COURSE has everything to do with your character. The interpretation of those informations is based on your character (and of course your upbringing, which means the experience you already made has also influence how you interpret new experiences. but the latter was and should be out of question here.).


For fan "typology," to me, you have to start with the simple premise that the entire modus is irrational. Sport teams are usually set in childhood and rarely change. It is more rational to follow a player as a person with a connection or to seek out being entertained by the best product. This rarely happens. But I digress, if fandom is based in some a degree of irrationality, trying to determine someone's behavior/response to that stimuli is an exercise in futility.

As I stated before, "this" (fandom collectively cheering, complaining, posting) is about entertainment and nostalgia on an irrational base. Fandom and now message boards satisfies and a basic human need for belonging (group of fans of same team, group of people with religion, group of people). When people get together, smaller factions form with similar beliefs. What you hope to get is rational dialogue to a fundamental irrational subject (all 22 review, statistical corroboration, etc, etc,), but this need to continually assign labels and extrapolate character and humanity is an effort in futility.

Maybe i missunderstand you but i do think you contradict yourself. You start with the assumption that the entire "modus" is irrational. But in your next sentence you write that people make decission based on rational behaviour ?!

Anyways ... As i said my post was not about fandom. And it wasnt about how in detail people act the way they act. but of course humans are social beings. They need others around them, they need to be integrated in groups, they need the exchange with others. All that is needed to survive. But again i did not assign labels or extrapolated anything. In fact i wrote exactly the oposite: "Statistic is the death of the individual." - Thats what i wrote. Which in fact supports your opinion.

When it comes to the process of rational or irrational decision-making i am a bit torn (means i dont know ;-).

First: science says that all of our decissions are irrational. Even if you think about something rationaly the decision you make is mainly based on irrational reasons. I for myself have problems with those two words. What i like more is to call it a process of conscious and unconscious decision-making. Now you could define that rational decisions are those who are made in a logical means conscious way and irrational decisions as unconscious ones. But from what i have read in scientic papers unconscious decisions are still rational ones. its just that the process is not conscious to the human. But it is made in the same way the conscious is made: Your brain processes alot of parameters and comes to a clonclusion. Whats mor interessting is that the unconscious part has WAY more parameters then the conscious one. It means that unconscious experiences have much more weight in our decision finding process .The parameters also differ alot. The unconscious part processes old feelings, exeriences etc where the conscious part is logical and more based on todays needs. Thats one reason why i use "conscious = logical = rational" and "unconscious = irrational". But that may be to easy and wrong. I guess there are too important differences between those terms in this context.


I probably cant get into this deep, but this was/is a main tenant of religion where total acceptance is required. Arguably, this is great for people when the leader is sound of character, but when you get a Jim Jones, putting blind faith in something wasnt very beneficial or noble. This cant be swept away as "only those with bad character" would follow him.

I do differ between "religion" as a conception and the "church" as an organisation (or any other community/group of humans that interpret religion in any kind of way, set rules etc...). I do think religion is a great thing and there is nothing "bad" about it (at least the ones that i know: buddhism, hinduism, christianity, islamism, etc...). I do agree with you that humans not always interpret religion in the best interest of others. I dont want to start a war against the church here but there are enough examples in human history that churches misinterpreted "the words of a transcendental being" consciously so they benefited the most out of it.


WOW. I could even write more. But i am (a bit) tired and too lazy right now.

Anyways thanks for your post!
 
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First i want to clarify some things you seem to have missinterpreted:

My post was not so much about fandom in general or the fans here on this board. Fandom was just the hook in the initial post for - to me - a much more fascinating topic.

Also i do think you missunderstood my use of the word character. And its a bit bothering that your whole answer is build upon a grading into "good" and "bad". That is not what my intention was in my post. I did not grade.

When i use the word character i mean the fundament that makes you the person you are. This is your genes and your epigenetics (Thats the common agreement of todays science of what shapes your character). But this alone is not enough to describe why you are the person you are. There are also external influences which - over a lifespan - let you be the person you are. In short: character and upbringing are the fundaments of you as a human. That again is not my thesis but the status of knowledge of human science today.

I never said that I or anybody can (fully) infer the character of people. That was not my intention either. But thats your interpretation of my post - which could be also seen as narcissistic in some kind of way. ;-)

After i have clarified that let me give you some answers to your thoughts:

Probably a bit of assumption you were discussing more default psychological definition of character (personality) versus a physiological genotype/phenotype discussion. Since fandom was a jumping off point and, to me, that is an inherent irrational decision it tends to lend itself to meeting an emotional or psychological need. To say that need wasnt born out of a physical, morpholigic event, I assume that is a valid hypothesis, but I havent seen the controlled studies pinpointing 2 identical subjects interpolation of a factor and deviating when all else equals. In general, that probably isnt something to get into in this thread.

As for the former definition or assumption, while I will agree that good/bad is based on an individulas perception, I do follow that there are universal laws that people in a society inherently are supposed to adhere to (i.e. seeing a child standing in the middle of the road and stopping to bring them to safety versus swerving without braking). So I'll cede, on this board, when i see character, it is a bias that I assume it is in reference to the optimistic/pessimistic perceived posters which is used synonymous (and erroneously) with "optimism is a virtue/good" and "pessimism is a vice/bad." Some of that is driven by the continual warnings of topic/content, which is fine to set on a private board, but rewards some behavior over the other. It is well-intended and I think implemented fairly and with leeway, but it is subjective on its face.

What you wrote is not a priori wrong. But to me its not thought thru to the end. Let me explain:

Of course the way you stated it is (one possible) way humans come to conclusions. But the important thing you left out is "interpretation": All those things that happen to you, those experiences you make, the observations - all those stimulations of your sensors - are interpreted by you. And the interpretation of "things" is based on your character: Your epigenetic decides which genes are going to be activated when you experience certain stimulations. This process is what i call interpretation. Because your genes and epigenetic are/is unique the interpretation and therfore the kind of human you are and will be in the future is unique.

Consequently those "judgements" (like you call it) or the conclusions (i find the word more fitting) you make as a human when you (rationaly) process information are influenced by your character (= genes/epigenetic).

Further more the interpretation lets your brain build its synapses. That means that the way you think in the future about the things that happend to you in the past is based on your interpretation-process hence your character hence your genetics.

Very simplistic spoken (please dont take that as an argument against me): Thats the reason why humans with exactly the same experience come to different conclusions. The reason is NOT because what happend was different. And with comming to a conclusion i dont necessarily mean that this is a conscious process. This is rather something unconscious but it shapes your behaviour, your feelings etc... - all those things you are not concious of - and therefore all the (unconscious) decissions you will make in the future.

A small example: Lets take for instance a small child which parents will get divorced. One child may suffer maybe will - in his later life - have addiction issues (alcohol, drugs, games etc ...). Another child may suffer also but has somehow the "ability" to handle the "problem" and may even get out of it as a stronger person. The first child may need help from the outside (positive influences) like a good teacher, good friends, a good surrounding. The other may not need those things and still get thru this phase of his life. The way those two childs develop is based on their character and how they interprete the things that "threaten" their autonomy - or else - their own ability to survive. That "ability" to "survive bad circumstances" is your character its your epigentic and genes. And this has nothing to do with grading something.

The character defines such fundamental things as desideratum. Which is trivial because your fundamental needs are there to show you what you need to survive. And what you need to survive (food, sleep, motion etc ...) is based on your individual (physical) needs - and thats based on your genes hence your character.

Everything we experience in life and we take as facts is always only our interpretation of what happend, of what we experienced - its entirely subjectiv. Thats also the reason why there is no so called "absolut knowledge". No serious natural scientist will ever tell you that we will ever know how the world works. Its always an incrementalism to the truth but we will never know the "real" truth.

That said: The processing of information OF COURSE has everything to do with your character. The interpretation of those informations is based on your character (and of course your upbringing, which means the experience you already made has also influence how you interpret new experiences. but the latter was and should be out of question here.).

Judgement is drawing a conclusion, Conclusions are are formed from interpreting stimuli and data. I think we are splitting hairs here. Whether it is biological or chemical, extrapolating it out to draw a personal conclusion reading a post on a football board. You referenced "rationally" here and probably 99% of members here are here for community and entertainment not for the advancement of football.

Again, this can get off on a tangent quick, I totally agree people will never have identical experiences and thus process information in an incremental fashion. I also believe (and studies back this up) If you hear something new 3 times it takes something around 17 or more times to hear a counterposition before most people acquiesce that it may be valid. So while all of the above has validity, the question is can inherited character be changed. Some people invest in being introspective and honest about their situation or motives, others don't have the time or the inclination. However, being of a math background, I do think there are universal truths and laws. And for this topic, just because someone may be a #3 after the Blls loss, doesnt make them a #3 in general. That conclusion , as you stated, may be drawn from interpreting data, analysis and unbiased observation. A conclusion not based contrary to that data can be fine for an individual to hold, but that person will soon be conditioned that that approach is shunned for lack of credibility in the real world -{insert new stimuli/synapse change/ chicken and egg I guess}


Maybe i missunderstand you but i do think you contradict yourself. You start with the assumption that the entire "modus" is irrational. But in your next sentence you write that people make decission based on rational behaviour ?!
Let me explain more since I am not on my phone. Being a fan of a team because of color and logo over 40 years is inherently irrational. However, people will likely always have irrationality. I have to model customer behavior for mortgage prepayments and deposit beta/life. To the rational, seeing a mortgage rate a point lower than your current rate is likely a no brainer to hit the bid and refi. However, some dont, that can be based on rational thought (e.g a balance may be too low to compensate for upfront fees, etc) or irrational (termed burnout) where the customer basically says ****. Deposit behavior more of an art than science.

I went to school during the Heath Shuler, Peyton Manning , Todd Helton years at Tennessee. I had classes with some of these guys and knew them pretty well. Logic would dictate that I should really root for Shuler to succeed in Washington, Manning to destroy Dallas every ime he plays them and become a Colorado Rockies fan over the Dodgers. None of that happened and really wasnt even a conscious thought. With Shuler, my forst thought was "I hope Dallas beats his ***." No vested interest or personal relationship with Dallas, just some irrational holdover that I am ok with. Dont care to change it.

Anyways ... As i said my post was not about fandom. And it wasnt about how in detail people act the way they act. but of course humans are social beings. They need others around them, they need to be integrated in groups, they need the exchange with others. All that is needed to survive. But again i did not assign labels or extrapolated anything. In fact i wrote exactly the oposite: "Statistic is the death of the individual." - Thats what i wrote. Which in fact supports your opinion.

When it comes to the process of rational or irrational decision-making i am a bit torn (means i dont know ;-).

First: science says that all of our decissions are irrational. Even if you think about something rationaly the decision you make is mainly based on irrational reasons. I for myself have problems with those two words. What i like more is to call it a process of conscious and unconscious decision-making. Now you could define that rational decisions are those who are made in a logical means conscious way and irrational decisions as unconscious ones. But from what i have read in scientic papers unconscious decisions are still rational ones. its just that the process is not conscious to the human. But it is made in the same way the conscious is made: Your brain processes alot of parameters and comes to a clonclusion. Whats mor interessting is that the unconscious part has WAY more parameters then the conscious one. It means that unconscious experiences have much more weight in our decision finding process .The parameters also differ alot. The unconscious part processes old feelings, exeriences etc where the conscious part is logical and more based on todays needs. Thats one reason why i use "conscious = logical = rational" and "unconscious = irrational". But that may be to easy and wrong. I guess there are too important differences between those terms in this context.
Since I am answering as I am reading, I think I previously hit some points here. I agree the need to belong is strong and is needed for base survival. Once you get a group though natural roles do start emerge.

As far as conscious/unconscious. There is a leadership class that touts achieving traits/skills in an unconscious manner is the ultimate goal. something like this

  • unconscious/unskilled - Don't know what you dont know / gleefully ignorant (e.g. you dont know bicycles exist)
  • Conscious/unskilled - Know you dont know something but need (e.g. you see a bicycle and think it is cool to lear)
  • Conscious/skilled - you practice and continue to progress through the learning curve and acquire advanced concepts (you practice and learn a trick even)
  • Unconscious/skilled - you do things that are now ingrained and require no thought to execute and even multi task (can rid a bike and answer a cell phone and cant remember when you didnt know to ride)
It is interesting, my issue is complacency in stage 4 which may make you hold on to an antiquated/illogical skill for fear. Anyway, it rang a bell, not sure entirely relevant



I do differ between "religion" as a conception and the "church" as an organisation (or any other community/group of humans that interpret religion in any kind of way, set rules etc...). I do think religion is a great thing and there is nothing "bad" about it (at least the ones that i know: buddhism, hinduism, christianity, islamism, etc...). I do agree with you that humans not always interpret religion in the best interest of others. I dont want to start a war against the church here but there are enough examples in human history that churches misinterpreted "the words of a transcendental being" consciously so they benefited the most out of it.

WOW. I could even write more. But i am (a bit) tired and too lazy right now.

Anyways thanks for your post!

Religion/church, to be brief, I guess it boils down to whether you ascribe to the belief man could truly translate and decipher God's word without bias or ulterior motive. What is pure from the Almighty versus an interpretation to control the masses for power and or order. If that is the case the current church just continued with the 6th degree of Kevin Bacon thing. Questioning, to me, is never a bad thing. Getting a new angle should be welcomed.

Segue back to football, I dont want all my fellow fans to be #1s, #2s, etc. rational or not

Now that everyone has been driven out of this thread, I will try to find that Schwartz for DC thread and enter a Spaceballs "I see your Schwartz is as big as mine" bullet for a couple of likes to catch Risen
 

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The four types of Cowboy fans:

1) The glass is spilling over: This type of fan thinks we are Superbowl bound every year. They get mad at every negative news article, negative post, etc…. They do not want to hear anything negative about the team they love. They accept anything the team does and gives it their full support. They would never post anything negative themselves.

2) The glass is half full: this type of fan thinks we are almost there just a step away from the Superbowl held out only by injuries or bad luck and next year will be our year. This fan can tolerate a little bit of negative news, post, etc… but not too many. They almost always make positive post but occasionally can drift to the negative side albeit temporarily.

3) The glass is half empty: this type of fan loves the Cowboys but sees issues they desperately want corrected whether it is the owner, the coach, or a player. They could never root for another team but are unhappy due to issues they want corrected. They tend to post negative things and at times get carried away with it due to frustration but will also defend other areas of the team that think are positive.

4) The glass is shattered: this type of fan can’t seem to find anything positive about the team. They are mad at everything usually blaming the owner for anything and everything.

Although these are stereotypes, I think it sums up most Cowboy fans. Truth is most fans drift between the types at different times. I personally have been type 1,2, & 3 over the years and it changes with the team’s success. I lean to #3 at the moment but I started the year as a # 2 based on last season. When I was a child in the 70’s and during the 90’s, I was squarely a # 1. I think most fans are firmly entrenched as # 2’s or # 3’s at the moment and that can create a little friction and frustration on the forum. One thing we all need to realize is that we all love the team even the # 4’s.

There is a 5th type: Those who eat glasses.

I still like the fans who enjoy on the level of individual play...and say Wow, with a great pop of pads.
 

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I don't agree with your arguments and think they are biased.

Most people have complex views of situations that ebb and flow in a dynamic fashion as more and more data flows in.

But most here would say they bleed blue over the Cowboys. How else could someone spend so much time over something that brings so much positive and negative emotions over a very long period of time with no other perks that I'm aware of? It doesn't matter whether your child has been good or bad; you still love them.

Maybe being a fan is loving your team no matter. IDK.
 

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I don't agree with your arguments and think they are biased.

Most people have complex views of situations that ebb and flow in a dynamic fashion as more and more data flows in.

But most here would say they bleed blue over the Cowboys. How else could someone spend so much time over something that brings so much positive and negative emotions over a very long period of time with no other perks that I'm aware of? It doesn't matter whether your child has been good or bad; you still love them.

Maybe being a fan is loving your team no matter. IDK.

I was not trying to lump everyone into one category or another and maybe my category descriptions do not fit everyone perfectly but the idea was more about how the dynamics change based on the performance of the team. Others who have replied have taken it this way also. That was not my intention .If you didn't read all the way through the first time, read the whole post. The main point was in the commentary after my "stereotypical" descriptions.

BTW- I am not criticizing rather just want to make sure you and others understand the real point I was trying to make. I think it may explain why there is friction on the board.
 
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I was not trying to lump everyone into one category or another and maybe my category descriptions do not fit everyone perfectly but the idea was more about how the dynamics change based on the performance of the team. Others who have replied have taken it this way also. That was not my intention .If you didn't read all the way through the first time, read the whole post. The main point was in the commentary after my "stereotypical" descriptions.

BTW- I am not criticizing rather just want to make sure you and others understand the real point I was trying to make. I think it may explain why there is friction on the board.

Thank you for your thoughtful words. I am not offended at all.

Over the last 51 years I've followed the team, it has changed game to game and season to season every season I've known. That is the nature of the NFL.

While my reactions to wins and losses have been myriad I quickly return to my baseline of watchful waiting for the next season to unfold. In fact it has already begun.

If I were to count my fandom based on wins and losses then I would lose a great deal. The journey is not arriving at one's destination.
 

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Where's the option for people who see the glass as it is; be it full, half-full, or broken?
 

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So...by this poll 50% of this forum is delusional. Makes sense. How anyone can see anything more than the glass half empty is beyond me. :( Yup...4-11 is making the grade:huh:
 
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