$3,500 is what I pay for my daughter, but unlike the kid you speak of she is a keeper and has Kelly Bendixen (our club keeper coach he is also a college coach and the Sounders Woman's Keeper Coach) as not only coach but a mentor. Kelly has coached everyone from Tally Hall (played for our club) to Hope Solo as her personal keeper coach , I can't stress how much this man means not only to her but to us as a family he is very direct, does not play the "hype" game and is genuine in his love for the game and teaching it. We just got a new head coach for her GU17 team and he is the assistant head coach for PLU (Pacific Lutheran University) and our Head coach of the last 3 years was drafted at the age of 16 or 17 and played back in the days of Tatu etc.. So we get a lot for what we pay for but I do realize that not all youth clubs teach and some are about money over all.
I had my daughter try out for ECNL about a month ago and the coach wanted her, but she did not want to stress us out with the $14,000 bill to play at that level which I love her for but at the same time it sadness me that to play at the "highest level" you do have to have a "Bank Roll" on a side note we did spend $120 for a college id camp for Central WA Div 2 school and they want her back for an official visit! The senior keeper could not get over how she showed and blew away all players not just keepers but field players as well, sorry had to brag
I grew up in TX playing on old grass fields and fell in love with the game at 5 played all the way through my time in the Army even got to play against some National Teams on an all Army team. Now I coach little kids to teach them the skills of the game and how to strike, pass, cross, head etc.. with no pressure of a club environment and it is one of the funnest things that i do!!