Question for married men

[Runwildboys]

I can't quite pin point with this guy. I would say jealousy but I'm leaning more towards pride. And control (due to insecurity?). Or maybe all three I dunno.

I was gonna ask if maybe he was just embarrassed that he couldn't pay.

 

[Ranching]

Ah-Haaaa! There's a deeper issue afoot.

Foot fetish????

 

[CouchCoach]

I was gonna ask if maybe he was just embarrassed that he couldn't pay.

Yeah, I could get that very easily. Man, if you can't buy your woman what you want, you sure as hell don't want anyone else doing that, especially another man.

 

[CouchCoach]

Foot fetish????

That's why they're trying to get this poor woman a pedicure.

 

[lukin2006]

lukey, now ease up. You've been through a very rough time with some scars still not healed but my man, there's nothing wrong with dancing, if you have the right partner. Just got to know when to let them lead, if you have the right one.

That is is very true. Maybe at least proceed with caution.

 

[Runwildboys]

Well so you offered to pay for your wife’s friend? He’s saying no? That’s just odd. I took your question as it was just one girl and some guy was paying for it. There is nothing but innocent intentions on your part with the friend, you didn’t tell her to to take, so hubby is just being a controlling POS.

Word of advice (divorced married 8 years) if you don’t trust her get rid of her brother life is too short to worry about someone stepping out on you.

I hear what you're saying, but cwby88 is more head over heels in love with his wife than anyone I've ever seen.

 

[CouchCoach]

I hear what you're saying, but cwby88 is more head over heels in love with his wife than anyone I've ever seen.

Yeah but bad experiences lead to bad advice. I was lucky but I've known some that weren't and I would feel differently had I had some of those experiences.

My bud who hates me because I moved to golf paradise and don't like golf told me about one of their junior partners in the firm. And there's golf involved so he loved telling it because he really doesn't like the guy.

The guy returned early from a trip to Austin to find his wife in bed and in action with two, TWO, of his usual golfing foursome. I immediately went visual on that so I'm digging it. Now, my bud is pretty dry and doesn't have a great sense of humor but he crippled me. I asked what the guy is doing and he said he'd moved out and was filing but the worst part was he really liked playing golf with those two guys. He said it in a so matter of fact way that I was in a fit of hysterical laughter and he didn't know why. This is the guy that I've told you about, he's my mountain to climb because I can't make him laugh but he will say "that's really funny" and he means it, told our other friends I am the funniest man he knows. Very challenging and perplexing.

 

[GMO415]

I thought the question was going be, should I get married? LOL. I answer that question anyways NO. In 2018 there is no reason to ever get married...

Agreed! I'm married, but if God forbid something happens....never again!

 

[GMO415]

Foot fetish????

There was a foot fetish porn DVD running around work about 15 years ago......hilarious.

 

[CouchCoach]

Agreed! I'm married, but if God forbid something happens....never again!

Hear that and that something happened to me but I do not have the desire or energy to go through even dating. I just accepted that chapter of my life was over and would never be again and while it does get lonely sometimes and I really miss having my woman, there are worse things in life. Like being lonely with someone. Or having a woman that doesn't know when silence is beautiful.

What has happened is the ultimate irony of life. When I was younger, I was a shameless horndog and getting into their pants was my driving force and now that I really don't have much interest, the women in this area, 6 to 1 ratio, are a bunch of horny old birds. Timed released karma.

 

[DBOY3141]

There was a foot fetish porn DVD running around work about 15 years ago......hilarious.

Is Rex Ryan in it.

 

[Ranching]

Agreed! I'm married, but if God forbid something happens....never again!

 

[rynochop]

I thought the question was going be, should I get married? LOL. I answer that question anyways NO. In 2018 there is no reason to ever get married...

With the way courts are, no doubt..too big a financial risk, unless she's a pos abuser meth addict, she's getting most everything

 

[cwbyfn88]

Ah-Haaaa! There's a deeper issue afoot.

Well I am sending her to a casino. They have one of the best spas in the area. With nice dining and shopping. Who knows what kind of boozed up Crowd Goes there

 

[cwbyfn88]

I was gonna ask if maybe he was just embarrassed that he couldn't pay.

Thing is the guy makes almost twice as much as I do.... I guess you know what they say the more you make the more your expenses

 

[nobody]

Ah-Haaaa! There's a deeper issue afoot.

It's an issue that he is justified in feeling and they're working on it. It'll take love, time, and patience but I'm sure they're going to work through it. From the way he's talked, the love is obviously there and it's strong.

 

[Ranching]

Thing is the guy makes almost twice as much as I do.... I guess you know what they say the more you make the more your expenses

Whoop his ***!

 

[Cowboys_22]

Marriage is a process. Some things you learn as you go. It gets better the longer you’re married. In my case anyway, can’t speak for her lol.

Hopefully your process is more successful than our fearless HC.

 

[GMO415]

Been married for 21 years so I just got off probation.... hahaha .

Don't know how my parents and inlaws have been married 50+ years.

 

[Cowboy Brian]

I will ask him to come over and wait at the door with a baseball bat

Pretty much

Trust isn't the issue.

Not sure of the exact male equivalent, but I sure as heck wouldn't let another woman pay for me to be pandered by other women... #loyalty