Question for married men

CouchCoach said:
lukey, now ease up. You've been through a very rough time with some scars still not healed but my man, there's nothing wrong with dancing, if you have the right partner. Just got to know when to let them lead, if you have the right one.
Click to expand...

That is is very true. Maybe at least proceed with caution.
 
CowboyStar88 said:
Well so you offered to pay for your wife’s friend? He’s saying no? That’s just odd. I took your question as it was just one girl and some guy was paying for it. There is nothing but innocent intentions on your part with the friend, you didn’t tell her to to take, so hubby is just being a controlling POS.

Word of advice (divorced married 8 years) if you don’t trust her get rid of her brother life is too short to worry about someone stepping out on you.
Click to expand...
I hear what you're saying, but cwby88 is more head over heels in love with his wife than anyone I've ever seen.
 
Runwildboys said:
I hear what you're saying, but cwby88 is more head over heels in love with his wife than anyone I've ever seen.
Click to expand...
Yeah but bad experiences lead to bad advice. I was lucky but I've known some that weren't and I would feel differently had I had some of those experiences.

My bud who hates me because I moved to golf paradise and don't like golf told me about one of their junior partners in the firm. And there's golf involved so he loved telling it because he really doesn't like the guy.

The guy returned early from a trip to Austin to find his wife in bed and in action with two, TWO, of his usual golfing foursome. I immediately went visual on that so I'm digging it. Now, my bud is pretty dry and doesn't have a great sense of humor but he crippled me. I asked what the guy is doing and he said he'd moved out and was filing but the worst part was he really liked playing golf with those two guys. He said it in a so matter of fact way that I was in a fit of hysterical laughter and he didn't know why. This is the guy that I've told you about, he's my mountain to climb because I can't make him laugh but he will say "that's really funny" and he means it, told our other friends I am the funniest man he knows. Very challenging and perplexing.
 
GMO415 said:
Agreed! I'm married, but if God forbid something happens....never again!
Click to expand...
Hear that and that something happened to me but I do not have the desire or energy to go through even dating. I just accepted that chapter of my life was over and would never be again and while it does get lonely sometimes and I really miss having my woman, there are worse things in life. Like being lonely with someone. Or having a woman that doesn't know when silence is beautiful.

What has happened is the ultimate irony of life. When I was younger, I was a shameless horndog and getting into their pants was my driving force and now that I really don't have much interest, the women in this area, 6 to 1 ratio, are a bunch of horny old birds. Timed released karma.
 
lukin2006 said:
I thought the question was going be, should I get married? LOL. I answer that question anyways NO. In 2018 there is no reason to ever get married...
Click to expand...
With the way courts are, no doubt..too big a financial risk, unless she's a pos abuser meth addict, she's getting most everything
 
GMO415 said:
Ah-Haaaa! There's a deeper issue afoot.
Click to expand...
Well I am sending her to a casino. They have one of the best spas in the area. With nice dining and shopping. Who knows what kind of boozed up Crowd Goes there
 
GMO415 said:
Ah-Haaaa! There's a deeper issue afoot.
Click to expand...

It's an issue that he is justified in feeling and they're working on it. It'll take love, time, and patience but I'm sure they're going to work through it. From the way he's talked, the love is obviously there and it's strong.
 
Marriage is a process. Some things you learn as you go. It gets better the longer you’re married. In my case anyway, can’t speak for her lol.

Hopefully your process is more successful than our fearless HC.
 
The Fonz said:
I will ask him to come over and wait at the door with a baseball bat
Click to expand...
Pretty much

Trust isn't the issue.

Not sure of the exact male equivalent, but I sure as heck wouldn't let another woman pay for me to be pandered by other women... #loyalty
 
You must log in or register to reply here.

Staff online

Members online

Total: 4,560 (members: 70, guests: 4,490)

Latest posts

Forum statistics

Threads
465,161
Messages
13,855,375
Members
23,788
Latest member
mattyice
Back
Top