it depends...
1) Are you pretentious enough to own an Apple product?
2) Do you have time to tell everyone you know, then every new person you meet, that you have an Apple product within the first 2 minutes of meeting them?
3) Are you into cult activities?
If you answered "no" to any of these questions, you probably should not get an Apple.
Actually, I think the Android phones have caught up to Apple in terms of intuitive controls & coolness factor. Do what Brain said - go to the ATT store, or the Verizon store, or Best Buy, and have someone walk you through the features of the phones in your price range. Spend time with each one & see how it feels in your hand. I have had an iphone in the past, but now I have a Samsung Galaxy S2. Both are great devices.