I'm with you, bob... Trying to motivate these players by basically bragging about how much you spent on the stadium is beyond weird.
Also, remember the "I could do anything in the world I wanted to, but I'm here" speech? Strange as well.
I will say that last week I was looking around the radio while doing some yard work, and on Monday night on 1080 am I caught the end of a show with Crayton and Roy Williams. Brad Sham asked Roy how much Jerry was around at practice, and he said two or three times a week. Sham asked if Jerry gave speeches before the game, and Roy said not usually, it's more individual pep talks before games. Roy said the players called him "dad", as in "I see you had a talk with dad"... Roy and Crayton were kind of semi-snickering about it. So you wonder how seriously they take all this.
But yeah -- the idea that "You better perform or I'll look bad after spending all this money on my big party" is lame.
BTW, if you live within a couple hundred miles of DFW, maybe even more, you can catch that show at dusk and after. That one was Monday night and there's one Wednesday night that I caught with Charles Haley and Nate Newton. Apparently they're every Monday and Wednesday from 7-8pm. I didn't even know these were out there until I just lucked onto them.