WoodysGirl;2928854 said:
That's my only point. The perception of distraction is based on fiction.
I think we're mostly on common ground here but I disagree with you that the perception of distraction is based on fiction. The common ground here is that I completely agree that a girlfriend/wife is not necessarily a distraction and should not be treated as such. Having a girlfriend/wife at a game is not necessarily a distraction and should not be treated as such. What IS a distraction is if the girlfriend/wife is constantly blabbing to every magazine and paparazzi agency that will listen about their love life and whereabouts, resulting in more media attention and scrutiny. That specifically was my issue with the Simpson clan. I think that would wear on anybody.
The proof that the perception is not based on fiction comes in all the magazine cover stories out there about Jessica Simpson having finally found the true love of her life in Tony which are now magazine cover stories about how he cruelly dumped her because he had a wandering eye or whatever the Simpsons are saying now. The proof was also there during their relationship. Graydon Carter (Vanity Fair editor in chief) also owns the Waverly Inn in New York City. In one of his blogs he indicated that one of Jessica's people phoned a tip in to the paparazzi so that they would know that Jessica and Tony would be dining at the Waverly Inn on a particular night at a particular time. That's the kind of thing I'm talking about.
Actually, I didn't bring her up. I was responding to another post where somebody else brought her up.
Sorry, my brain was thinking "mentioned" but my fingers typed "brought up". My bad.
The bold part is pretty much b.s. since when he was dating her there was a thread almost every week about her and his whereabouts and there was just as much crying about him being with her.
I'm going to disagree seeing as they weren't seen together all that much. The Eagles game, Romo's birthday which was 4 months later, the country music awards show, and not much else. But yes the crying was there. Didn't agree with it then, wouldn't agree with it now with the exception noted above.
And since they "broke up" or whatever, her dating exploits are still a topic of entertainment news.
Occasionally but she's much more in the news for her career. All famous people are going to deal with some entertainment news coverage about their personal lives. My point is different celebs deal with that differently. You have the Beyonces, the Charlize Therons, the Carrie Underwoods, who although you hear every now and then about their personal lives, really keep the focus on their professional lives. Then you have the Jessica Simpsons, who constantly run to People and other magazines with gushy quotes about how great their love life is, who market their products by dropping more gushy quotes about their love life, etc., etc.
I don't know anything about how any of these people would be in relationship. But from my standpoint of a fan I prefer a Romo gf who isn't constantly running her mouth to the tabloids and driving more media coverage of his personal life (which inevitably spills over onto the sports blogs like DMN and gives the media more to bug Tony and his teammates about).
But they will, cuz he's the Dallas Cowboys quarterback. The proof is in the fact that this thread was reposted almost 10 times.
Like I said above some level of media interest in any celeb's personal life is to be expected. I know that's not going away. But celebs can take steps to encourage or discourage it. The Simpsons are notorious for encouraging interest in their personal lives.
I THINK Tony's learning that he'd rather discourage it and that's why it seems to me this whole thing with Candice Crawford is actually being kept under wraps. It's been outed, but we're not reading daily/weekly breathless reports of sightings or gushy reports about how in looooove they are, unlike the Jessica Simpson era. I find that encouraging because although I don't consider relationships to be a distraction, they can become one when 1 of the parties is drumming up media attention for it. So far that's not happening here and that's a good thing.