Was it the same referee who ejected both the other earlier players.
If the coach - any coach - had heard the referee say anything they should have told the Referee crew chief.
Then write it up and send it into the the association.
That ref has been around for 15-20 years. He was getting ready to be nominated as the head ref in the entire region...someone with a great reputation.
For sure, if he ever had complaints about making racial slurs in the past it would have been reported....as it should be.
That's not something that could be hidden in any way, as there are always people out there holding grudges against refs--and especially in football crazy Texas.
SA Jay was ticked because they were heading for a big loss, and they had key players ejected.
The default nowadays is to claim some kind of slur was made.
And btw, we both know and you would agree, even if he did use a slur it would never justify what was done. However, it might justify him being suspended or put on probation.