Have some similarities with you guys.
I can't handle plain tomatoes. But enjoy tomato products like ketchup, steak sauce, and salsa. I guess it's the texture.
I can't stand peas, makes me nauseated. Family members always try to sneak them into dishes, bite into one and the pop, ugh.
Also hate the smell of most seafood, and don't care for it, but I don't mind eating it.
Root beer is delicious! I like every version, although my favorite is Barq's which is different from the others.
A weird/ocd thing I have is I can't stand money in my wallet not being in sequential order and the presidents/Franklin.Hamilton have to be facing me I open it. Drives me insane if I ever see a man or woman's wallet with bills just shoved in there, if it's someone I know I ask if I can organize it for them.