What's in nightlife today?

Oh DABZ, those dance mixes will mess you UP! I'm impressed that it was only two knees. Ah, the memories though!

Coach, DABZ and I never went professional because we wanted to compete in the Olympics. I had my music, glitter costume, hair, make up and everything ready to bump my way to the top of the podium.
 
Sarek said:
Ok so i went out to a fancy bar/club tonight. Pricey!

I figured since the place was pricey i would be around people who had class or at least a small portion of it.

OMG was i wrong!

I consider myself somewhat of a slow person, these people i was talking to were so much worse than me that i couldn't stay in their presence for more than a few minutes without regurgitation.

I know some people here are in their 60's or older but this post/thread is for people in their 30's or 40's. My question is what are you encountering out there these days?

Are your experiences better than mine?

What say you?!
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Lot of people meet online now these days instead of bars like we use too. Bars and all the prententious people trying to act like something they are not is a riot to watch. Everyone is so supercool and they look like a complete idiot. I am still trying to figure out the morons in a dark club wearing sunglasses trying to be so cool.It's nighttime and they have dark shades on. They can't see anything but look so smooth.LOL!!! Doesn't get much better online, look how many people take a photo inside their bathroom with sunglasses on.You are inside your place.Why do you need sunglasses on? The glare of the bathroom lights???...Some of the older ones at bars try to pretend they are loaded with money hoping some young thing pays attention to them. Some are just drunks and no one would put with them. Probably when you meet people just expect a level of BS....If you are by yourself and you try to meet a girl and she has a friend with her.Her girlfriend will do everything to sabotage your efforts because she doesn't want end up being alone. Have a wingman to help you by diverting the other ones attention. Guys can also act like jealous divas trying to ruin your chances with a girl they have an eye on also. Some are Neanderthals and only try to prove themselves by trying to start stuff with you because they have no game to communicate with a woman. Sarek most of the game is confidence in who you are and unfortuanately it's a game and it is shallow. ....My advice go online and talk to some women you like and you feel like you back. That is better now than bars and the pretenders in those bars. STICK TO YOUR GUNS AND BE REAL AND YOU HAVE A MUCH BETTER CHANCE THAN THE FOOLS WITH THE SUNGLASSES ON.
 
Sarek so many phonies out there. You will notice a group of guys and they will start stuff with a guy who is by himself. A bunch of cowards hiding in numbers vs one guy. All the turds who think they are so bad because they put a ballcap on backwards. The problem some women fall for this,but most those women you probably rather not know anyways.....Also 30s-40s women some of these women just want to hate on a man because they want to be able to turn them down to make them feel better about themselves. Not all women but you will once in awhile find some like that. Just ignore them because those women have issues. Also don't hit on the bartenders or waitresses because they get it every night from somebody hitting on them.....Sarek if you can stand out you can be THE CATCH. Most guys think just showing up in a T-shirt and sneakers is OK. Dress to kill,but be age appropriate don't try to look like a younger generation,be yourself. I'm an 80s kid,but I'm not showing up in a punk rock 80's look either. Just a nice dress shirt,pants or stylish jeans and some nice dress shoes. If you can dance and are a good dancer.You have the limelight even if the girl you dance with is not who is your target. You will have other eyes on you.Lot of guys are scared of dancing and are wallflowers or the Neanderthals. You got the women's attention even before you approached them if you are a good dancer.......................Also NO-LINES just say "Hi" is the best opening to your target girl...I say I am a retired PLAYA. If you saw 4 women come in together to the bar. 1-A very pretty one,2-A pretty one but not as pretty as the #1 girl,3-The nerdy girl who looks lost and 4-The fat girl. Which one do you approach?..Answer is #2 The reason is because #2 girl is in competition with #1 girl and #1 girl expects to be approached several times that night. #2 wants to show up #1 and boasts that you came to her not #1.But have your wingman to deflect the other ones.Also you paying attention to #2 girl could also end up getting you #1 girl who wants to stay #1. ................. I hope this helps.It's not easy when being out of the swing for awhile..GOOD LUCK SAREK!!
 
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Used to love to go out when I was young. Esp in the military and shortly after getting out.
Could go out, drink and dance all night and have a blast.

Now you would have to pay me a good deal to even consider going out to a bar.
Too many idiots out there who just want to start something or be annoying turds.

Still have some co workers who go out every weekend and frankly I just don't get the appeal to it anymore.

IF I wanted to get drunk and have fun we would just go to some friends house or something. You are around people you like for the most part and don't have to worry
about a bunch of idiots in a bar trying to act tough to try and show off in front of some woman who they think is a ten while wearing beer goggles but turns
out looking like a meth head.

The last time we went out was when some of my wife's family came in that she had not seen in some time. They wanted to go out. I was bored out of my mind.
Actually had a better time just drinking on the back porch and talking with them than in a bar. At the very least we controlled the music we wanted to hear and did not have to
scream at each other just to be heard or to get another beer or drink.
 
Other rules to do and don't do.

*A nice cologne and definitely fresh breath because women are very sensitive to odor.

* You are having a conversation and you have brainlock and cannot figure out what to say. Best way to get out of that is to say to her is "Tell me about yourself"? Because that brainlock can be the silence that kills your chances of being quiet because you can think of anything. Basically PUT THE BALL IN THEIR COURT".
 
Xelda said:
Oh DABZ, those dance mixes will mess you UP! I'm impressed that it was only two knees. Ah, the memories though!

Coach, DABZ and I never went professional because we wanted to compete in the Olympics. I had my music, glitter costume, hair, make up and everything ready to bump my way to the top of the podium.
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Lol. True Dak my friend.
If I had four legs, it would of been more knees.:laugh:
 
timb2 said:
Other rules to do and don't do.

*A nice cologne and definitely fresh breath because women are very sensitive to odor.

* You are having a conversation and you have brainlock and cannot figure out what to say. Best way to get out of that is to say to her is "Tell me about yourself"? Because that brainlock can be the silence that kills your chances of being quiet because you can think of anything. Basically PUT THE BALL IN THEIR COURT".
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Unfortunately I can’t be much help. I wouldn’t be caught dead in a club and I prefer day drinking. If you want to know about the crowds, or lack thereof, between ~noon-8 (a late night) at bars then I can help ya out.
 
timb2 said:
Sarek so many phonies out there. You will notice a group of guys and they will start stuff Lot of guys are scared of dancing and are wallflowers or the Neanderthals. You got the women's attention even before you approached them if you are a good dancer.......................Also NO-LINES just say "Hi" is the best opening to your target girl...I say I am a retired PLAYA. If you saw 4 women come in together to the bar. 1-A very pretty one,2-A pretty one but not as pretty as the #1 girl,3-The nerdy girl who looks lost and 4-The fat girl. Which one do you approach?..Answer is #2 The reason is because #2 girl is in competition with #1 girl and #1 girl expects to be approached several times that night. #2 wants to show up #1 and boasts that you came to her not #1.But have your wingman to deflect the other ones.Also you paying attention to #2 girl could also end up getting you #1 girl who wants to stay #1. ................. I hope this helps.It's not easy when being out of the swing for awhile..GOOD LUCK SAREK!!
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Lol. So true. Those type were a complete turn off in our books. They stand there thinking they look so cool when in reality we'd be dancing in our circle talking & laughing about them.
 
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I work with a coyple of 20-something professionals. They still hit the clubs but its not like before.
For many out there, the clubs were always for finding booty. Its not called the pick up scene for nothing.
Well, now, the younger generation has fairly commonly used, no strings attached, social sites.
 
I'm with @BrAinPaiNt Besides, if you're at home and you drink too much. I don't have to drive to my bedroom. Well, with my GF, she doesn't drink so she drives in efforts to cart me to the bedroom..

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That usually wasn't a problem as I'm a home body these days. Though, she is Brazilian and they are extremely social people and have BBQs all the time. The good thing is, when we do attend these, she drives me home because damn they can drink! hah I haven't drank like that since I was in my 20s.
 
DFWJC said:
I work with a coyple of 20-something professionals. They still hit the clubs but its not like before.
For many out there, the clubs were always for finding booty. Its not called the pick up scene for nothing.
Well, now, the younger generation has fairly commonly used, no strings attached, social sites.
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Never heard of it. I did hear of The Meat Market.:p
 
daboyzruleperiod said:
So let me get this straight. You have the only Brazilian day doesn't drink?!:p
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Not sure what a Brazilian Day is, but I have a Brazilian girlfriend that doesn't drink. Best part about it is, I make wine and she helps me. Then I get to drink it all to myself! rofl

Actually, most of my wines are still aging, but I have several that are aged enough to be drank, but I would like a few more years on them.
 
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