* Others to do and not do at a bar meeting women.
*If you like this woman and you buy her a drink she might think she has a sucker and will let you buy her drinks all night,but she has no intention of you taking her home or even wanting your number.She just played you.
*Don't say to beautiful woman "YOU ARE SO BEAUTIFUL"! Most beautiful women hear that all the time and they feel you are not a challenge. Not only you are on the prowl,but they are too. They want someone who interest them. Basically leave a little mystery about yourself, don't let them figure you out so easily keep them intrigued to know more about you.
* Sounds funny but even when you enter a bar,eyes are already on you. You are already being sized up by the women there. Come in looking confident and you know what you are doing.You come in looking nervous and scared you have lost some already.. Don't overplay the confidence,don't be like the morons trying strut in looking so gangsta grabbing their crotch and crap. Just know you are sure of yourself.
* If you are somewhat a novice,just go in to study the people in the bar,no intentions of meeting that Babe tonight. You will see good moves and also the bad moves. ONE CLASSIC BAD MOVE is a guy will see like 3 women together he gets the courage to talk to one if she wants to dance and she says "No' and right then he will ask one of the others if she wants to dance. That 2nd girl will also say "No" most of the time. That 2nd girl will say to herself when asked after that 1st girl just spurned you."What am I,CHOPPED LIVER"? She most of the time will say "NO".... Some guys act stupid and will insult the girl for spurning him not to dance. That is stupid, best to do is to be cool and polite and say something like "Well I hope you have a good night,maybe later if you are interested". You left the door open and will shock some women and you have their interest now because you were cool about it. Some come around and will find you later to dance.
*Don't touch women first because for a lot of women that has just ticked them off. Think about if some old granny started touching and grabbing at you? It would make you clam up , irritated, and turned off. If the girl you are talking to she touches you first, she wants you to touch her back then ,but don't grope her,be smart..She just invited you because she likes you.
* Also women don't like profanity for the most part .It turns them off also talking sex to them or even asking if you can kiss them. They want it to flow naturally.You know when you can read their eyes.Think about the profanity girl. Is she the catch YOUR DREAMGIRL or she most likely a One And Done at most.
*Some girls like Bad Boys and unfortunately Good Guys Do Finish Last. You don't have to be bad like a criminal but having an Edge is not bad. I call it Superman vs Wolverine. Both are good guys. Superman handsome,ALL-AMERICAN,drinks his milk,loves his Mom,,polite as everything. He is boring,he is 2dimensional. Now Wolvering has an Edge about him,he has confidence to say what is on his mind,smokes cigars,willing to fight if he has too to protect what he believes in, and he even fights his own X-Men team,he is unpredicatable,but he is also a good guy. If you were going to pick a comic book to read,who to you is the more interesting hero? It is Wolverine.You don't have to be a Bad Guy,but having an Edge and some Depth to yourself is good .You don't have to be so squeaking clean and so easy to figure out.
*You want to have a sense of humor,but being a clown like Jim Carey will not get you anywhere. Women will laugh and find you funny ,but won't take you serious to be BF ,material,but you also don't want to be a humorless robot. Have a sense of humor, but not a clown
Good luck in the Meat Market
