I really liked the article. We see part of the problem with our society here...if somebody wants to have a serious, legitimate discussion that looks at the point of view of the male in a situation like this...our society has such a problem with that it cannot even entertain the thought of a serious discussion. Instead of coming up with intelligent replies, there's a lot of people on Whitlock's FB page that resort to ad hominem attacks against Whitlock.
The other readers have the blinders on that they believe that Whitlock thinks that Hardy did not abuse Holder.
That's not what the point of the article is about. It's about journalists doing a poor job of being professional journalists. They are more interested in sensationalism instead of seeing the entire story so the readers do not get an accurate picture of the story so they can then make a more informed decision on the story.
If you still believe that Hardy should be banned for life after that, fine. But, if you're not consistent with all of the other similar type of cases with players in the NFL, then you're being a hypocrite. That's kind of beside the point other than the journalists/reporters/writers are being hypocrites (like Diana Moskovitz who thinks we have no right to judge Hope Solo, but should judge Hardy) and that in turns creates hypocritical readers.
The more and more I read about the Hardy case, the more I think it makes it look like he pushed her but it also makes it look like Holder was out of control and prompted that. It's becoming murkier in terms of whether Hardy was offensively pushing her or defensively pushing her. Holder admitted to heavy drinking and doing coke prior to the incident. She claimed that Hardy choked her and there are no strangulation marks on her throat. The DA has publicly admitted that he could not reconcile the contradictory statements that Holder made in her testimony versus the police report.
All of that is very different from how the media has portrayed it. They have made it look like he offensively punched her, slapped her, choked her and threw her around the apartment and that Holder did nothing but verbally argue with Hardy. As Whitlock points out, what we have on record is far different from that.
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