thechosen1n2;2675717 said:
because some people get used to losing. some people wont speak up about the problem. Tell me one thing he said that was wrong.
So, Terrell Owens is the only member of the Dallas Cowboys or the Philadelphia Eagles or the San Francisco 49ers who "didn't get used to losing". Nonsense.
Terrell Owens is fully in his right to complain. Every player has that right. The key difference between Terrell Owens and many others is that he does not acknowledge that there is a right way and a wrong way to complain as an NFL athlete.
The NFL is not a democracy. Owens has proven time and time again that he has freedom of speech, but realistic inner team problem-solving in the NFL isn't conducted through soundbites and who created the most drama on the nightly news. It's done through the acceptance that there is a hierarchy for achieving that goal within the franchise's structure and it's pretty dang simple. Here it is:
Player has a problem
Player approaches an assistant or head coach with the problem
Player explains and discusses the problem with the coach
Player accepts the outcome as outlined by the coach
That's it. The vast majority of players in the NFL understands that, but not Terrell Owens. He believes that speaking up about a problem means allowing Deion Sanders to interview him and airing out the team's dirty laundry. That's dirt dumb stupid, it's childish and worst of all--he KNOWS it. Can you tell me why he has never understood that is not how you solve your "problems" in the NFL? I would really like to know.
Practically every statement which he has made with the word "I" was wrong. However, let's take a moment and consider those are the only examples of him saying something wrong and let's also be realistic for a moment.
This is Terrell Owens. Everyone (practically literally) who is aware of his past understands that for him to deflect, minimize or just flat-out avoid negative criticism which can be generate by fans, media, etc., he has to silence himself.
Honesty isn't a crime, but for him, speaking aloud honesty promotes his own self-destruction. Tact is almost a mystery for him. Certainly, several factors played a part in his being released, but the ONE thing which should have never factored in was his mouth. He... can't... control... it. And that's the saddest part of Owens' unending personal drama that there is.
thechosen1n2;2675717 said:
Donovan didnt appear to hate losing...Neither did Romo. TO never through Romo under the bus. If he talked to Garrett about it (thats what he was suppose to do). TO didnt tell the media.
Both McNabb and Romo hate losing. To think otherwise is... well... strange. They are both competitors. The difference between them and Owens is that they can accept defeat and attempt to overcome losing through constructively working within the structure of their team. Owens cannot and that is his weakness, not theirs.
thechosen1n2;2675717 said:
My question is Yeah, why is TO the exception. Romo, Roy, threw Garrett under the bus...TO is the only one you hear about.
Owens makes himself the exception. He is not Tiger Woods, John McEnroe, etc. When single sport athletes are upset, they can only vent about themselves and the ramifications of their words begin and end with them. Owens plays in the NFL, but believes that he can complain about TEAM issues without consequence. Wrong.
Granted, Romo and several of his teammates have opened their festering gobs also. Whether you or anyone else wants to accept the one particular truth which I'm about to state is your choice, but it doesn't matter either way:
In today's sports fan/media society, if you have either committed a horrendous act OR established a pattern in your past, you will be judged (for lack of a better word) harshly for anything contentious which you decide to utter publicly.
Is that fair? Of course not. Is that a reality which will change? Of course not. Is that a reality which can be logically integrated within oneself? Of course, UNLESS you're one of those folks who believe that by grabbing air that they somehow can HOLD it within their hands. People like Terrell Owens.
He can be as "honest" as he wants. He certainly does believe that he is one of the most honest human beings on the face of the earth, but even he understands that his "brutal honesty" cuts his own throat. He may one day receive a heavenly reward for it, but while he's spouting off down here on good old mother earth, he's jabbing that stick up where the sun don't shine.
Sorry. As hard as it may be to accept, that's just the honest truth of how things REALLY works.
thechosen1n2;2675717 said:
There is a TO double standard...period.
If Owens believes that, fine. If you or anyone believes that, ditto. As Newt said in
Aliens:
"It won't make a difference."
thechosen1n2;2675717 said:
People wanting Boldon, after he acted an IDIOT on the sideline when his team was up in the NFC championship game, but thats alright.
When Boldin's resume has filled with even a quarter of Owens', he'll get the same treatment. I doubt that he'll ever come to duplicating Owens after fourteen years in the league, but we'll see won't we?