Why should I stay a Cowboys fan?

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I plan to stay a Cowboys fan as long as I can stomach it. For the longest time, I've been a diehard Cowboys fan. However, I just have to ask. Why should I stay a Cowboys fan? This is the first time I can remember truly questioning it. However, the statements Jerry made about essentially wanting us to be talked about being more important than winning guts me as a young fan. I started watching this franchise in about 2000. I gobbled up everything Cowboys, and I still always want to stay on this board. That said, what's the point of cheering on a team when the owner cares more about the Forbes Bowl than winning the Super Bowl? It's clear now why he makes the moves he makes. It's clear to me now why he won't do what it takes to win, such as a proper GM, better coaching, and why it's always one side of the ball that's atrocious and one side that's not.

I'm writing this thread to ask for help. Help me to understand why I should stay a fan. I plan to do so just because I don't have another team I'd support, and I enjoy this board. Overall, I still very much enjoy the Cowboys, and I like our players. However, Jerry's statements felt like a slap to the face when I've taken every insult from other fans. I spurned the Eagles, whom most of my family supports. I spurned the Broncos when my favourite animal is clearly a horse. I spurned the Texans when they started to stay a Cowboys supporter. I've happily taken the insults. And for what? A team who is run by an owner who couldn't care less about winning?

Again, I'm NOT quitting the Cowboys. I'm more venting my anger with what Jerry stated and asking for help on why I should carry on as I plan to do so as a Cowboys fan.

Also, for those who say "You're a quitter", I've been one of the most positive fans on this board. I've always tried to stay positive no matter what. I'm still trying to stick to the Cowboys. Also, how would you respond to Jerry's comments if you were in my shoes having never seen us get to the NFC Championship game?

You’re only 29 years old. The fact that you’re questioning continuing to be a fan of the team tells me you haven’t been a fan for that long. I’ve been following the Cowboys since 1972 and have seen all 5 of their championships so it’s a till death do us part for me and the team regardless how discouraged and frustrated I get. You’ve never even experienced the team winning a divisional round playoff game. I may be thinking of another member but I believe you said something about jumping on board with the team during the Campo years. You certainly picked a bad time to start following the team. I’m surprised you didn’t bail then. Lol
 

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I plan to stay a Cowboys fan as long as I can stomach it. For the longest time, I've been a diehard Cowboys fan. However, I just have to ask. Why should I stay a Cowboys fan? This is the first time I can remember truly questioning it. However, the statements Jerry made about essentially wanting us to be talked about being more important than winning guts me as a young fan. I started watching this franchise in about 2000. I gobbled up everything Cowboys, and I still always want to stay on this board. That said, what's the point of cheering on a team when the owner cares more about the Forbes Bowl than winning the Super Bowl? It's clear now why he makes the moves he makes. It's clear to me now why he won't do what it takes to win, such as a proper GM, better coaching, and why it's always one side of the ball that's atrocious and one side that's not.

I'm writing this thread to ask for help. Help me to understand why I should stay a fan. I plan to do so just because I don't have another team I'd support, and I enjoy this board. Overall, I still very much enjoy the Cowboys, and I like our players. However, Jerry's statements felt like a slap to the face when I've taken every insult from other fans. I spurned the Eagles, whom most of my family supports. I spurned the Broncos when my favourite animal is clearly a horse. I spurned the Texans when they started to stay a Cowboys supporter. I've happily taken the insults. And for what? A team who is run by an owner who couldn't care less about winning?

Again, I'm NOT quitting the Cowboys. I'm more venting my anger with what Jerry stated and asking for help on why I should carry on as I plan to do so as a Cowboys fan.

Also, for those who say "You're a quitter", I've been one of the most positive fans on this board. I've always tried to stay positive no matter what. I'm still trying to stick to the Cowboys. Also, how would you respond to Jerry's comments if you were in my shoes having never seen us get to the NFC Championship game?

It's worse for the guys like me that have seen the championships and now 27 years of futility. Your feelings are normal given how it is now embarrassing it is to say you are a fan. The Jones family makes it so hard to root for these guys. For the people that say you are a quitter - screw them. Who cares what those chuckleheads think. Do what makes you happy. I am going to be a shadow Bills fan starting this season. I will never stop rooting for Dallas but I need a backup plan so I can enjoy football in January and not be bitter. I am going to say I think the arrow is pointing up in Dallas. McCarthy and Quinn are real coaches.
 

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I plan to stay a Cowboys fan as long as I can stomach it. For the longest time, I've been a diehard Cowboys fan. However, I just have to ask. Why should I stay a Cowboys fan? This is the first time I can remember truly questioning it. However, the statements Jerry made about essentially wanting us to be talked about being more important than winning guts me as a young fan. I started watching this franchise in about 2000. I gobbled up everything Cowboys, and I still always want to stay on this board. That said, what's the point of cheering on a team when the owner cares more about the Forbes Bowl than winning the Super Bowl? It's clear now why he makes the moves he makes. It's clear to me now why he won't do what it takes to win, such as a proper GM, better coaching, and why it's always one side of the ball that's atrocious and one side that's not.

I'm writing this thread to ask for help. Help me to understand why I should stay a fan. I plan to do so just because I don't have another team I'd support, and I enjoy this board. Overall, I still very much enjoy the Cowboys, and I like our players. However, Jerry's statements felt like a slap to the face when I've taken every insult from other fans. I spurned the Eagles, whom most of my family supports. I spurned the Broncos when my favourite animal is clearly a horse. I spurned the Texans when they started to stay a Cowboys supporter. I've happily taken the insults. And for what? A team who is run by an owner who couldn't care less about winning?

Again, I'm NOT quitting the Cowboys. I'm more venting my anger with what Jerry stated and asking for help on why I should carry on as I plan to do so as a Cowboys fan.

Also, for those who say "You're a quitter", I've been one of the most positive fans on this board. I've always tried to stay positive no matter what. I'm still trying to stick to the Cowboys. Also, how would you respond to Jerry's comments if you were in my shoes having never seen us get to the NFC Championship game?
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Frankly, if anyone under 35 years old wants to follow another team,
I'd be okay with that.
 

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It all boils down to this: If you are happy buying and wearing gear, along with watching games, hang in there. OTOH if you expect to win anything beyond the division and a wild card game this place isnt for you. And another thing, if you expect things to change much when boy wonder sits in the big chair, I think you will be in for a huge disapointment.
 

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I plan to stay a Cowboys fan as long as I can stomach it. For the longest time, I've been a diehard Cowboys fan. However, I just have to ask. Why should I stay a Cowboys fan? This is the first time I can remember truly questioning it. However, the statements Jerry made about essentially wanting us to be talked about being more important than winning guts me as a young fan. I started watching this franchise in about 2000. I gobbled up everything Cowboys, and I still always want to stay on this board. That said, what's the point of cheering on a team when the owner cares more about the Forbes Bowl than winning the Super Bowl? It's clear now why he makes the moves he makes. It's clear to me now why he won't do what it takes to win, such as a proper GM, better coaching, and why it's always one side of the ball that's atrocious and one side that's not.

I'm writing this thread to ask for help. Help me to understand why I should stay a fan. I plan to do so just because I don't have another team I'd support, and I enjoy this board. Overall, I still very much enjoy the Cowboys, and I like our players. However, Jerry's statements felt like a slap to the face when I've taken every insult from other fans. I spurned the Eagles, whom most of my family supports. I spurned the Broncos when my favourite animal is clearly a horse. I spurned the Texans when they started to stay a Cowboys supporter. I've happily taken the insults. And for what? A team who is run by an owner who couldn't care less about winning?

Again, I'm NOT quitting the Cowboys. I'm more venting my anger with what Jerry stated and asking for help on why I should carry on as I plan to do so as a Cowboys fan.

Also, for those who say "You're a quitter", I've been one of the most positive fans on this board. I've always tried to stay positive no matter what. I'm still trying to stick to the Cowboys. Also, how would you respond to Jerry's comments if you were in my shoes having never seen us get to the NFC Championship game?
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I plan to stay a Cowboys fan as long as I can stomach it. For the longest time, I've been a diehard Cowboys fan. However, I just have to ask. Why should I stay a Cowboys fan? This is the first time I can remember truly questioning it. However, the statements Jerry made about essentially wanting us to be talked about being more important than winning guts me as a young fan. I started watching this franchise in about 2000. I gobbled up everything Cowboys, and I still always want to stay on this board. That said, what's the point of cheering on a team when the owner cares more about the Forbes Bowl than winning the Super Bowl? It's clear now why he makes the moves he makes. It's clear to me now why he won't do what it takes to win, such as a proper GM, better coaching, and why it's always one side of the ball that's atrocious and one side that's not.

I'm writing this thread to ask for help. Help me to understand why I should stay a fan. I plan to do so just because I don't have another team I'd support, and I enjoy this board. Overall, I still very much enjoy the Cowboys, and I like our players. However, Jerry's statements felt like a slap to the face when I've taken every insult from other fans. I spurned the Eagles, whom most of my family supports. I spurned the Broncos when my favourite animal is clearly a horse. I spurned the Texans when they started to stay a Cowboys supporter. I've happily taken the insults. And for what? A team who is run by an owner who couldn't care less about winning?

Again, I'm NOT quitting the Cowboys. I'm more venting my anger with what Jerry stated and asking for help on why I should carry on as I plan to do so as a Cowboys fan.

Also, for those who say "You're a quitter", I've been one of the most positive fans on this board. I've always tried to stay positive no matter what. I'm still trying to stick to the Cowboys. Also, how would you respond to Jerry's comments if you were in my shoes having never seen us get to the NFC Championship game?

Other than the Cowboys, do you have a hobby?
They are doing wonderful things in basket weaving.
Why, I bet we could gather elephant grass sheaves and we can weave a furry vegetative suit for you. With a flap for when you get scared.

Then in the glow of a campfire, you can tell me again your mum's silly theory of why THE NOSE TACKLS IS THE MOST IMPORTANT POSITION ON A FOOTBALL TEAM!!!!

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give me a go..........

Following a sports team is not just about winning the big one (nice as that is), there's so much more to give you that warm fuzzy feeling, investment of time and emotion. Last year ended on such a massive low however I console myself with re-watching games (or highlights) such as Parsons utterly destroying the poor Washington QB and it makes me happy, gives me a smile.

I played golf in my teens to a decent level however my game started to slide when I had the pleasure of working full time and I slowly got that bit worse. I started to not enjoy the game, then started to hate it and quit at about age 23. I.......got........no.......joy.

Now, some have said to you stop being a fan but my example isn't to say do that, it's make an informed decision - do the small wins / the highlights / the hope keep you alive and wanting more? I suspect 99.9% of us accept that and keep coming back for our love of the Cowboys. Is that enough for you?

If you want to see an example of having no hope, have a look at my avatar. My football team have ZERO chance of the winning the league ever in my lifetime but they are dear to me. I have so many memories of traveling to away games with friends, getting soaked in the Scottish rain walking to the stadium, hugging friends and strangers alike with last minute goals. I accept they will never with the league (our wee version of the SB) but they are in my blood.

The Cowboys have been the same for me since 1984 too. They still give me joy, lots of it.

That's what I feel you need to square off in your mind.
 

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It’s in my blood and I’ll always be a fan but the past couple decades have been tough. And I have to admit I care a lot less now than I used to. The losses don’t hurt as much and the sting from a loss doesn’t dwell for days like it used to. I also don’t spend nearly the money on Cowboys swag as I used to.
Jerry likes to generate attention. That’s always been a given. But he doesn’t play nor coach. The team still has goals and this has little to do with that.
 

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There's nothing wrong with re-evaluating being a fan OP, especially for a team such as this one. Being a fan of a team is a relationship and when your significant other hasn't given you great results in almost 30 years, it's normal to rethink thing. I wish i could give you a bunch of reasons to stick with this team but honestly, I'm kinda of in the same boat as you. it's not that i don't like the team anymore. but this past year has been more negative thoughts than positive, and neither Jerry nor Stephen help in any way. It's more annoyance towards the organization, not the team/players, which is where it gets tricky in deciding whether to support them or not. Plus I live in VA. it's hard enough being a cowboys fan, but who am i gonna switch too? the redsk....wft...commanders? nah, i'm good lol.

You're definitely not alone in your thoughts though. It puts a target on your back from a few idiots who can't seem to comprehend why you would ever debate being a fan, but you'll get a few supporters as well. I do see these types of posts/threads a lot more often than usual, and regardless of what others may say, it's good to hear the frustration and disappointment from others with a different view. Some are valid, some aren't but either way it's good conversation at times.

I'm not one for blind loyalty towards any franchise and regardless of what anyone says here, the only people who should have that type of loyalty are the ones who's paychecks come directly from Jerry. So i'll just say unless another team reeeeeally catches your eye, I would just sit back and see how the season goes, week by week and don't emotionally invest until we get to the super bowl and have a 5 td lead with 30 seconds to go. That's my plan for now lol
 

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I plan to stay a Cowboys fan as long as I can stomach it. For the longest time, I've been a diehard Cowboys fan. However, I just have to ask. Why should I stay a Cowboys fan? This is the first time I can remember truly questioning it. However, the statements Jerry made about essentially wanting us to be talked about being more important than winning guts me as a young fan. I started watching this franchise in about 2000. I gobbled up everything Cowboys, and I still always want to stay on this board. That said, what's the point of cheering on a team when the owner cares more about the Forbes Bowl than winning the Super Bowl? It's clear now why he makes the moves he makes. It's clear to me now why he won't do what it takes to win, such as a proper GM, better coaching, and why it's always one side of the ball that's atrocious and one side that's not.

I'm writing this thread to ask for help. Help me to understand why I should stay a fan. I plan to do so just because I don't have another team I'd support, and I enjoy this board. Overall, I still very much enjoy the Cowboys, and I like our players. However, Jerry's statements felt like a slap to the face when I've taken every insult from other fans. I spurned the Eagles, whom most of my family supports. I spurned the Broncos when my favourite animal is clearly a horse. I spurned the Texans when they started to stay a Cowboys supporter. I've happily taken the insults. And for what? A team who is run by an owner who couldn't care less about winning?

Again, I'm NOT quitting the Cowboys. I'm more venting my anger with what Jerry stated and asking for help on why I should carry on as I plan to do so as a Cowboys fan.

Also, for those who say "You're a quitter", I've been one of the most positive fans on this board. I've always tried to stay positive no matter what. I'm still trying to stick to the Cowboys. Also, how would you respond to Jerry's comments if you were in my shoes having never seen us get to the NFC Championship game?
You're a quitter. We don't want you
 

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I plan to stay a Cowboys fan as long as I can stomach it. For the longest time, I've been a diehard Cowboys fan. However, I just have to ask. Why should I stay a Cowboys fan? This is the first time I can remember truly questioning it. However, the statements Jerry made about essentially wanting us to be talked about being more important than winning guts me as a young fan. I started watching this franchise in about 2000. I gobbled up everything Cowboys, and I still always want to stay on this board. That said, what's the point of cheering on a team when the owner cares more about the Forbes Bowl than winning the Super Bowl? It's clear now why he makes the moves he makes. It's clear to me now why he won't do what it takes to win, such as a proper GM, better coaching, and why it's always one side of the ball that's atrocious and one side that's not.

I'm writing this thread to ask for help. Help me to understand why I should stay a fan. I plan to do so just because I don't have another team I'd support, and I enjoy this board. Overall, I still very much enjoy the Cowboys, and I like our players. However, Jerry's statements felt like a slap to the face when I've taken every insult from other fans. I spurned the Eagles, whom most of my family supports. I spurned the Broncos when my favourite animal is clearly a horse. I spurned the Texans when they started to stay a Cowboys supporter. I've happily taken the insults. And for what? A team who is run by an owner who couldn't care less about winning?

Again, I'm NOT quitting the Cowboys. I'm more venting my anger with what Jerry stated and asking for help on why I should carry on as I plan to do so as a Cowboys fan.

Also, for those who say "You're a quitter", I've been one of the most positive fans on this board. I've always tried to stay positive no matter what. I'm still trying to stick to the Cowboys. Also, how would you respond to Jerry's comments if you were in my shoes having never seen us get to the NFC Championship game?

I'm still a fan of this team because of my old '70s Cowboys that I grew up watching that were one of the greatest things in my life.
Great men like Roger Staubach and Tom Landry represented everything that used to be great about sports and were my heroes.

I honestly don't even think Jerry's a cowboy fan.
He's just a fan of his accomplishments he couldn't even be happy for Jimmy's accomplishments it just has to be all about him.
 

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I get why so many fans dislike or even hate Jerry W. Jones; His ego is the main reason this team hasn't won a Lombardi in 26yrs.; But I'll say this for him, no one wants to win a super bowl more than he does. The problem is he wants to win on his own terms, and not share the credit with a headstrong or strong-willed H.C. that would prefer to do things his own way.. With that said, no meddling owner can ever make me question or doubt my fandom to a team that I've been tied to since I was 10 years old. I understand that everyone's circumstances are different, but from my point of view being a true fan isn't a choice that you make, it chooses you.
 

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I get why so many fans dislike or even hate Jerry W. Jones; His ego is the main reason this team hasn't won a Lombardi in 26yrs.; But I'll say this for him, no one wants to win a super bowl more than he does. The problem is he wants to win on his own terms, and not share the credit with a headstrong or strong-willed H.C. that would prefer to do things his own way.. With that said, no meddling owner can ever make me question or doubt my fandom to a team that I've been tied to since I was 10 years old. I understand that everyone's circumstances are different, but from my point of view being a true fan isn't a choice that you make, it chooses you.

That sentence means absolutely nothing. How bad Jerry wants to win is simply garbage at this point. Just empty words!
 

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54 years a fan, I remember a time, when a regular season loss would sting all week till the following sunday, its not that way anymore, I'm numb to losing every year...I dont get my hopes up to high with this team anymore, back in 2000.... me and my brothers adopted an AFC as another team to root for, of course the Cowboys are always first, you might give that a try.
 
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