LOL. I don't think the conversation is "be quiet or get shot", but I guess if you want to sensationalize it that's your choice. The fact is, the courts have decided that citizens are to obey law enforcement commands when in contact. Obviously it has to be reasonable. My point is, you are not going to win by arguing, fighting, or escalating the situation. Since you were in the military (thank you by the way), I'm sure you're aware of the Use of Force model. LEOs ramp up their responses (verbal, hands on, deadly force) based on the actions of the person they are dealing with. An LEO does NOT have to wait until he's shot at before using deadly force. I'm being simplistic here. Obviously there are many factors involved such as the size of the individual, the sex (female officer v. male), criminal record of the individual if known, fighting skill of the individual, weapons involved, etc. The bottom line is, if you are nice to almost all (some bad apples I agree) LEOs, you will be treated in the same manner.