I liken it to parents who have a drug addicted son. They've done everything they could for him, enabled him, pleaded with him to change, etc. Until, finally, they're ready to let him hit rock bottom, hoping that he come to himself, get help and get better.
Sometimes, it takes that. But letting him hit rock bottom isn't a sign of hatred but a sign of LOVE and genuine concern for him. Because, unfortunately, some people have to hit rock bottom before they straight their lives out.
The same goes for this franchise. We may just have to let the Cowboys hit the lowest of the low. Hoping they do so isn't an indictment on fandom. Rather, it's a recognition that we understand what it's ULTIMATELY going to take to move from a place of hope by enablement to a place of hope based on true repentance and humility after being broken.